When Their BF Knows they do Escort Work

You ignore him. He ignores you. It's that simple.

I hate it when they have another man around. They could at least lie and say it was their brother instead lol.

What do you do when he is drunk and has a loaded gun?

If he's drunk and has a loaded gun, I don't worry about it, because I'm sober and have a loaded gun. If he's sober, I leave.

Actually, I leave either way. All of the girls I meet know that I'm not interested in meeting their BF/GF/H/SO, and that if that person is hanging around, call back when s/he's not. If s/he's there when I get there, I won't be there long, and she won't get any money.

It is harder than it sounds to just walk out and leave after you show up. Be ready for some sort of bullshit cancellation fee. Who the hell wants to fight over money? If you can't afford to lose the $100-400 then don't bother with hookers/escorts.

Back when I was doing more of [whatever], I made it a policy of never doing escort incalls.

I want an environment that either (1) I can control, like my hotel room, or (2) is a commercial place, such as an AMP or, in rare instances, inside a club iteself. You have no control over a private incall location, and usually no familiarity with it. Also, while you also have no control over commercial places, there is usually someone (an owner, manager, etc.) who would prefer not to have loud or public problems there.

At a private house, you can be isolated and/or ambushed in unfamiliar terrain by trash that doesn't give a shit if there is a problem, or may even prefer it. I am not a small guy and can handle myself, but I am not so stupid as to believe that the odds are in my favor in an ambush situation in a strage place where I have no familiarity or control.

Like I said, "All of the girls I meet know that I'm not interested in meeting their BF/GF/H/SO, and that if that person is hanging around, call back when s/he's not. If s/he's there when I get there, I won't be there long, and she won't get any money."

I will have made that point clear before agreeing to go or meet anywhere. If they want to give me grief about a fee for that, well, let's see what happens.

Rick - I totally agree. A hotel room one can control or inside a club like in VIP is much better than an incall location which can hold nasty surprises. Be wary of gals who want payment upfront, especially if they give it to BF. I have not prob showing them money and say putting it on night table beside bed or back in my pocket but you need to be in control as much as possible or you could get ripped.

You could show up at the incall locn, the girl requires you to pay the money upfront (hands it to BF / Pimp) standing nearby). You go inside and another shocker the place looks like shit inside. Then she says "We only have 15 minutes to do this because my Grandma in hospital about to die and my aunt is on her way and I don't want my aunt to know I do this." After all this shit, good luck in getting it up and getting off.

Another incall experience was with a waffle house waitress called Diane. She was a friend of a stripper I had been doing. Over a 2 yr period she was one of gals I rotated. I showed up at her apartment. There were 2 men in the other bedroom, she said not to worry that it was just her brother and his friend. Her bedroom did not even lock and she said "We can just do it right here no need to go to motel, be a man and fuck me." I am sure they heard it. I went ahead and did her and got off in her, she was very vocal in expressing her enjoyment. I then gave her the $150. As I was leaving the two guys gave me a standing ovation. I vowed never to myself never to do her there again.

"What do you do when he is drunk and has a loaded gun?"

SD, nice, clear thinking! I think I may take a pass as well.

Player, you are clearly a man who has had quite a number of interesting experiences. I have had a few myself and one of the lessons learned early on is that there are all sorts of ways that things can go bad or get dicey with apartment incalls.

Having said that, it is easy for me to give this advice as I travel alot and, even when local, have the budget for the added expense of a hotel or (in rare instancees) ITC VIP. For those people who are primarily local and on a limited budget, local incall may be the most cost effective way to go.