Over who's line? Over the line of the dancer or your wife?
If the dancer allows it, it's not over her line. And I wouldn't do so unless she allowed it.
I'm quite positive it's over my wife's line. I equate it with the dancer putting her hand down your pants.
I do it when ever I can. Its an extra, something beyond the "normal" LD and can be a signal of more to come. And I agree with SCat in washing your hands afterward.
That all depends on which club I am in at that point, and at 90% of the ones I've been to, inserting your finger in the kitty gets you kicked out. On the other hand, at the other 10%, I'd have to consider it.
I partake freely, but wash my hands thouroughly before enjoying a bite to eat from the buffet. I do not consider this normal SC activity over the line as it has led me into some really fun activity.
I have seen a dancer slub a customer bc he tried to feel her there so be advised its only best to probe if invited. When they show it to me, well thats my que.....
At the club I've been going to the most over the past year, most girls seem cool with the finger in the kitty. Those that aren't cool have actually said something at the beginning of the dance. But it definitely varies with the club.
I figure nothing is over the line if you get the signal that the girl is ok with it! Go for it dude (but please follow the hand washing advice).
There is certainly a rule out there that if there is a hole something is going in it. I however draw the line for this act. I do not want somebodys fingers inside of me at a club. Hygeine is the issue as well as the fact that we are now talking about a bit of intimacy that to date I have not been willing to give away..........
my 2 cents
Definitely, I never pass on an opportunity. Always wash hands though afterwards but I never usually eat from a public Buffet, especialy in a strip club.
Fingering is part of my game if it's part of hers. It's not an extra.
But know your dancer and her limits. But sometimes you just need to gently test those limits to find out where things stand if you don't already know. That test doesn't have to be blatant, it can be more of a teasing on the outside with a few hints.
Had a lapdance the other day from a dancer who's very aggressive (in a good way) and she always initiates this. She doesn't like passive, non-participatory customers. A good social attitude for a dancer.
I dont understand why you would want to do this to a stripper. Also, those that actually eat out strippers, wtf? That is reserved for the gf only haha, I have smelled some nasty pussies from strippers in my time so fingers or eating them out is not on my menu!
Kprince, I agree. I'm not spending money on a dance so I can make a stripper feel good. I don't finger. I don't eat them out. Grinding is fine. HJ, BJ, sure.
Now, OTC is different. If I take a stripper to dinner and it's a "date" then all normal b/g stuff is on the table. But not ITC.
Getting to stroke the kitty is not so much about giving the stripper pleasure (although I don't mind if it does) as it is finally getting to touch something after all that looking. When the opportunity arises (so to speak) I tend to just rub the outside of the pussy and diddle the clit rather than go knuckle deep. Its just as exciting and less intrusive than a full-fledged-finger-funking (try to say that three times fast!)
lopaw: Yeah, but you're a girl. Us self-centered guys are all about the "get me off, then get off me" mindset. :)
More seriously, personally, one of the hottest things a girl can do for me is get off, whether on her own, or with my help. It's certainly *nice* if I can do it, but I'm not arrogant enough to believe I can do it for every girl I meet on the first encounter. And just watching those little contractions is usually enough to get me right on the brink.
If they let you rub it outside the g-string then they will usually let you rub it inside the g-string. If you do all that , a finger fuck is the next step. I have had them stick their own finger inside and then put it in my mouth. I have said this a thousand times but most strippers have very tight pussies.
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