Fuck vs BJ?

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shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I have done both with strippers ITC and OTC but want to confine this to ITC experiences.

Fucking is the ultimate customer fantasy. It does happen. The advantage is that she can ride your cock reverse cow girl style and still watch for the bouncers."pop" once watched me from only 4 ft. away. He knew that something was going on but could not see it. To most on lookers this would just look like an ordinary lap dance. The disadvantage is that you have to get her wet first. This usually requires some kissing and finger fucking. You may or not want to do this. I find that some emotional connection has to be in place. Viagra helps.

BJ's on the other hand are cheaper but she cannot watch for bouncers with her face burried in your lap.You have to be the "eyes". This requires trust. Viagra is not required. I can still bust a nut without being totally rock hard.

I am leaning towards BJ's ITC but never rule out FS.

HJ's are just too common to bring into this discussion.

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londonguy
15 years ago
Shadowcat, what usually is the difference in cost?
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OneAngryDwarf
15 years ago
I've only ever gotten FS once in a club, and it turned out to be completely unenjoyable because she was being extremely paranoid the whole time-and with good reason, as the bouncer did come in a few times.

On the other hand, I've gotten a few BJs, all in VIP rooms in places that were pretty "lasseiz-faire"...the difference in attitude was well worth it, IMHO. Not to mention the lowered (though still present) risk of STDs.
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txtittyfan
15 years ago
I have had both. It depends on the /girl/club/location as to which is better. Some clubs have a better layout to allow for fucking. One of my best experiences was a tittyfuck at Treasures by a dancer who prided herself on her ability to do it without a mess while being discreet.
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Clubber
15 years ago
I agree with OAD. I prefer the BJ ITC, and his reasons are sound.
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CTQWERTY
15 years ago
Too bad the experience is compromised by paranoia. In the mosh pit at Bogart's Lounge, it's whatever the gal's willing to do (and you can afford.) The gals are only asked to be discreet, which means cowgirl or placing their back between the act and cashier guy.
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samsung1
15 years ago
I am with you on this one shadowcat, "I am leaning towards BJ's ITC but never rule out FS. "
I have enjoyed "russian" (I believe that is what they call it). Rubbing your dick in between the tits after licking them to get them wet. Despite its name I have not met a russian dancer who is into this kind of sex. The best mileage is on the smoker's patio or private dance area...never the champagne room ironically. I suppose the bathroom would be another good ITC location but I have not done it yet.
Several of the clubs have a fenced in smoker's patio outside to get around the smoker's ban here in columbus, oh. I have never seen a bouncer or camera to monitor them.
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gatorfan
15 years ago
I've had plenty of FS (fucking for anyone needing a transl) and gotten BJ often too at one particular strip club that closed last Monday. This club was the best for mileage I've ever been to, you could choose any girl and receive the same service during private lap dances. For BJ they'd charge $50 plus the cost of the lap dances (which were $30 each) and FS was $100 plus the laps. I've had a girl do russians to completion at the one jack joint but they try to keep the dick covered at least with a shirt so the cameras dont see. No bouncers to intrude on the private lap dances at the club, only the cameras to worry about. I think BJ or FS probably costs more where extras arent so rampid.
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10inches
15 years ago
never did FS ITC, but have had several BJ's. offers for FS turned down due to possibility of getting caught. cost seems to average about 75-100 for bj and 100 to 200 for FS offer
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Player11
15 years ago
I have done ITC BJ and FS with several girls at 4 different clubs the last coupla years. ITC sex is what I prefer and it can be good with the right girl and rushed without happy ending with the wrong one.

At the club where I am VIP BJ can be $100 and FS $150 and above. Mgt does not bother custies in the CR or VIP room which allow customer / dancer privacy. Almost all the girls at this club do extras.

For the most part I get FS which is usually $150 - $200. One gal would do BJ and the sex riding me with it going in from behind with her back to me. I shot off in her like crazy during the sex. Another does not do BJ (reserved for hubby she says) but gets in my lap facing me going up and down - she takes it all off. She gives pre sex HJ Foreplay and is the best. Consequently she is my main one.... Every gal is different as to stamina, performance, etc. So buyer beware.

ITC does not present the advantages a bed at a motel would. It can vary with the club. I did a gal at another club where VIP room was relatively open upstairs. She loved to do sex there as she "like doing it with people around." You would have to pay a mgr sitting up there $25 for entry. We did it one time with him not 15 feet away like he was asleep - all he had to do was turn around to c us fucking but never did. She wanted $200 and while I fucked her a coupla times preferred the other girl at my home club where VIP was more private. Both gals got me off real good.
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CTQWERTY
15 years ago
Player, at Bogart's, sometimes the cashier is only 3 feet away...
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gatorfan
15 years ago
I will say having private lap dance areas or rooms is a huge help for FS in the club (and probably also why it happens). Also will mention how non-discreet it was at the one club, your pants all the way down or off, the girls top and panty off and you could literally fuck her doggy, cowgirl, reverse-cowgirl, and even do greek (up the ass) at this now defunct club. Most other clubs I've gone to are not as loose to have pants off and everything.
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mmdv26
15 years ago
When ITC, FS is less obvious than BJ in most situations. I agree that FS OTC is usually more fun tho.
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chandler
15 years ago
Neither one are very good in a club compared to any place where you can really go wild and make noise and keep going forever. I had some pretty crazy fucks in the ladies room at my old regular club before they took the doors off and remodeled to make that next to impossible.

I hate tame blow jobs, so the only way I'll have a stripper suck my dick ITC is just to spice things up for a while, not with the intention of getting me off. The same usually goes for fucking, although it's easier to enjoy discreetly, as others here have said. All in all, I'd usually rather have a hot lap dance than a cautious sex act. A lap dance allows us to be a lot less inhibited and get crazy like you never can ITC with sucking and fucking.

BTW, I never pay extra. Just the regular price of a dance, if there's a dance involved.
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shadowcat
15 years ago
londonguy, In my limited experience, BJ's are 1/2 the price of fucking. They consider the pussy to be special. I have one favorite that says she will NEVER fuck for money. That, that is just for fun! I'm still working on that one. lol...
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DandyDan
15 years ago
Only did FS twice ITC. One was this ungodly old dancer, but she was the alltime cougar, as they like to describe those ladies. The other was a lady I'd been trying to get for a couple years and then she was just drunk one night, gave me a BJ for a starter, then we went at it. I got the impression she'd go greek, but I never got the chance to do that
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londonguy
15 years ago
Shadowcat, every girl has her price, right? I really must have more ITC when next over there. I am trying to get to Detroit especially for the SC's, b all accounts that's THE place to get them. How about your club Shadowcat, many ITC possibilities there?
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shadowcat
15 years ago
londonguy, there is always a price. Just make sure she knows that you just want to rent. NOT buy. I fly free but do not have any desire to visit Detroit. The reviews and posts on clubs there are mixed. I have found my own piece of heaven in South Carolina. It's been in the top 10 for a long time. I helped put it there. 600+ reviews. I am well known there by the dancers and club employees. I have a life time membership to all of their clubs. The day shift door girl does not even ask me to sign in. The bar tender knows what I drink. The dancers know what I like and will do 2 for $20 for me. I have many TUSCL followers that have met me there and were impressed. Why would I want to go any where else?
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gatorfan
15 years ago
There are some girls who make the price so outrageous no one would make a second offer. I think $10,000 a night is basically saying you dont.
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londonguy
15 years ago
I wasn't suggestig you should Shadowcat, merely saying that by all accounts Detroit is one of the better places for ITC possibilities.Of course your loyalty and dedication is well recognised in SC, and rightly so.
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shadowcat
15 years ago
londonguy, If I ever wanted to visit another strip club. Based on TUSCL reviews and posts by members on here. I would pick Houston,Niagra Falls Canada, Tampa and other south Florida clubs over Detroit. No offense taken.
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londonguy
15 years ago
No problem Shadowcat. Yeah I read some great reviews of clubs near Niagra Falls too, trouble is it's not close to any major cities, i.e. within driving distance.
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uscue13
15 years ago
One of my favorites offers both each visit - or well actually just starts doing both, I never ask - but I've gotten to the point where I'd prefer the BJ. Although like someone else said, FS is easy to hide since it looks like a dance. BJ's are harder and they are constantly worried
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