Fuck vs BJ?
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I have done both with strippers ITC and OTC but want to confine this to ITC experiences.
Fucking is the ultimate customer fantasy. It does happen. The advantage is that she can ride your cock reverse cow girl style and still watch for the bouncers."pop" once watched me from only 4 ft. away. He knew that something was going on but could not see it. To most on lookers this would just look like an ordinary lap dance. The disadvantage is that you have to get her wet first. This usually requires some kissing and finger fucking. You may or not want to do this. I find that some emotional connection has to be in place. Viagra helps.
BJ's on the other hand are cheaper but she cannot watch for bouncers with her face burried in your lap.You have to be the "eyes". This requires trust. Viagra is not required. I can still bust a nut without being totally rock hard.
I am leaning towards BJ's ITC but never rule out FS.
HJ's are just too common to bring into this discussion.
Fucking is the ultimate customer fantasy. It does happen. The advantage is that she can ride your cock reverse cow girl style and still watch for the bouncers."pop" once watched me from only 4 ft. away. He knew that something was going on but could not see it. To most on lookers this would just look like an ordinary lap dance. The disadvantage is that you have to get her wet first. This usually requires some kissing and finger fucking. You may or not want to do this. I find that some emotional connection has to be in place. Viagra helps.
BJ's on the other hand are cheaper but she cannot watch for bouncers with her face burried in your lap.You have to be the "eyes". This requires trust. Viagra is not required. I can still bust a nut without being totally rock hard.
I am leaning towards BJ's ITC but never rule out FS.
HJ's are just too common to bring into this discussion.
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On the other hand, I've gotten a few BJs, all in VIP rooms in places that were pretty "lasseiz-faire"...the difference in attitude was well worth it, IMHO. Not to mention the lowered (though still present) risk of STDs.
I have enjoyed "russian" (I believe that is what they call it). Rubbing your dick in between the tits after licking them to get them wet. Despite its name I have not met a russian dancer who is into this kind of sex. The best mileage is on the smoker's patio or private dance area...never the champagne room ironically. I suppose the bathroom would be another good ITC location but I have not done it yet.
Several of the clubs have a fenced in smoker's patio outside to get around the smoker's ban here in columbus, oh. I have never seen a bouncer or camera to monitor them.
At the club where I am VIP BJ can be $100 and FS $150 and above. Mgt does not bother custies in the CR or VIP room which allow customer / dancer privacy. Almost all the girls at this club do extras.
For the most part I get FS which is usually $150 - $200. One gal would do BJ and the sex riding me with it going in from behind with her back to me. I shot off in her like crazy during the sex. Another does not do BJ (reserved for hubby she says) but gets in my lap facing me going up and down - she takes it all off. She gives pre sex HJ Foreplay and is the best. Consequently she is my main one.... Every gal is different as to stamina, performance, etc. So buyer beware.
ITC does not present the advantages a bed at a motel would. It can vary with the club. I did a gal at another club where VIP room was relatively open upstairs. She loved to do sex there as she "like doing it with people around." You would have to pay a mgr sitting up there $25 for entry. We did it one time with him not 15 feet away like he was asleep - all he had to do was turn around to c us fucking but never did. She wanted $200 and while I fucked her a coupla times preferred the other girl at my home club where VIP was more private. Both gals got me off real good.
I hate tame blow jobs, so the only way I'll have a stripper suck my dick ITC is just to spice things up for a while, not with the intention of getting me off. The same usually goes for fucking, although it's easier to enjoy discreetly, as others here have said. All in all, I'd usually rather have a hot lap dance than a cautious sex act. A lap dance allows us to be a lot less inhibited and get crazy like you never can ITC with sucking and fucking.
BTW, I never pay extra. Just the regular price of a dance, if there's a dance involved.