How Basic "Why do you go" Question Affects Our Responses
Thursday, August 6, 2009 4:32 AM
I know we get into circular discussions where quite a few topics end up leading to other past topics and so on, but it really is interesting how the basic question "why do you go to a strip club?" affects all of our answers to these strip club questions.
Why do you go to a strip clubs?
A)Blow-a-load
B)Nice Grind-n-some contact
C)Drinks,Tits,Social Value
D)Other reason ?
Those going for extras will look at clubs much differently than those who dont. Someone who likes upscale decor and the hottest girls will evaluate a club different than someone who wants some good contact amd hot girls but not necessarily seeking out clubs with extras. And, those club which have combinations of extras, hot girls and/or upscale decor would be evaluated the best or not necessarily/other reasons?
Why do you go to a strip clubs?
A)Blow-a-load
B)Nice Grind-n-some contact
C)Drinks,Tits,Social Value
D)Other reason ?
Those going for extras will look at clubs much differently than those who dont. Someone who likes upscale decor and the hottest girls will evaluate a club different than someone who wants some good contact amd hot girls but not necessarily seeking out clubs with extras. And, those club which have combinations of extras, hot girls and/or upscale decor would be evaluated the best or not necessarily/other reasons?
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I agree with your basic premise. It's human nature. What we perceive is affected by a lot of things, including our past experiences, our prejudices, and some tricks our brains play on us (like convincing us our memory is solid, when it's really like swiss cheese).
Cops know that witnesses are unreliable. TUSCL reviewers are no different. Thankfully, the law of averages tends to sort things out and I'm sure the rating engine used by Founder takes advantage of that.
Sometimes, that can be just a good conversation with lots of laughs, or meeting someone new and interesting. Often, it means hooking up.
We all go for fun, my question was asking how some of us go for a specific kind of fun/get off which we'll review "the club was great, it's a dump with avg jane's but I got a BJ so it's great". I know this affects my reviews, I'm sometimes considering the extra's more important than anything else about the club. I'm sure others do the same thing.
Yes, a gator, all beauty and no brains. :)
gatorfan, I like your pic... I wish I was her derivative because then I would be tangent to her curves!
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Playhouse has one of the best and more unique menus
Coliseum has an excellent menu with fine wine and beer pairings
Flight Club is good with large portions
All Stars has good food but poor presentation
La Chambre, Odessa makes some great dishes and it's the closest club to my house
Hey, it's an excuse that works for me.
Anyway, I'll make it unanimous. I go to have fun. I don't go to have a crappy time, nor because I'm under any obligation to. What kind of fun? Superficial fun with sexy girls acting like nymphos. It's no fun for me if the girls aren't hot or if the club doesn't cut them enough slack to allow us to interact spontaneously. I like my fun to feel open-ended, like anything could happen, not canned. Compared to all of this, I couldn't care less about the type and quality of the club itself.
For instance, do those of us going to the club for the purpose of extras think only clubs with extras are good. So a review which says"I went to this club, it was great! I had a lap dance with DancerXYZ, she is really hot and gave me a great BJ lots of tongue, I paid $100 for the lap dances. I think this is one of the best clubs around". This review helps someone looking for extras but doesn't give the first clue as to whether the club's a dump, do all the girls do this and are we rating the dancer a 9 or 10 based on her BJ or is she really hot?
Another example, do those of us going for drinks, tits, hot girls and just fun (socially entertaining) time think only clubs like that are good. In this case, those of us looking for extras would have no idea if extras are available but would know there are super hot girls, lap dances and a fun time.
I'm asking how we end up with reviews which basically represent what we're looking for and does not necessarily tell everyone the whole picture.
It's something I noticed about the club and still remember by the time I get around to writing the review. From that perspective, it's more about what I recall or feel like writing at the time than what I'm looking for going in. If somebody wants to know more about a club I've seen, all they have to do is shoot me a PM and be on the level. Plus, if a club has a lot of descriptive reviews already it's redundant to type more of the same unless material to the review. While on this particular subject, I like what founder did with the rating scheme by splitting it up. It helps me flesh out information quickly without the blow by blow.
My reviews are long enough without having to put in something for everyone. And really, most clubs don't make enough of an impression to list every single detail. It's a strip club.