When is a Lap Dance not a Lap Dance?
gatorfan
Here's a question I thought of when I was responding to a different question:
If you are getting laid, BJ or HJ during what would otherwise be a lap dance, should we really be calling it a lap dance? I'm asking since mileage/extras really isn't dancing (I will say I've had a few instances where there's been hot foreplay which sort of was dancing then followed by extras/mileage). What is a good lap dance versus what is a good BJ/extras.
I'm just wondering whether we should be calling it what it really is "StripperXYZ provided great extras/BJ but no lap dance to speak of".
If you are getting laid, BJ or HJ during what would otherwise be a lap dance, should we really be calling it a lap dance? I'm asking since mileage/extras really isn't dancing (I will say I've had a few instances where there's been hot foreplay which sort of was dancing then followed by extras/mileage). What is a good lap dance versus what is a good BJ/extras.
I'm just wondering whether we should be calling it what it really is "StripperXYZ provided great extras/BJ but no lap dance to speak of".
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The only thing consistent about all of this is we're paying for the lap dance time. There probably are 2 different sets of SC customers, those who go for the extras and those who do not. Whenever I read different reviews, it's easy to tell what and why the person went to the strip club. I just dont think we should really be saying we received an awesome lap dance if it only was a BJ from a stripper with the suckage power of a Dyson vacuum or if our cock was stuck between the girls tits the entire time (or would we call that a tit grind?, funny)
Of course, there are gray areas. For me, the extra that can seem to blend in with lap dancing is fucking. I've had girls in the middle of a dance reach down and slip my dick in and carry on with almost the same grinding action. A blow job or hand job would have to take more of an abrupt transition.
30 minute dances. By muliple, I mean 3 or 4 with the same girl. This
same club is not currently known as a really high mileage place. In
the VIP, you may be able to play with the kitty or maybe get some
hand action. I would say more than that is probably the exception
rather than the rule. From what I hear during these multiple VIP sessions, there is a lot of talking going on!