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It's a well known fact that many men enjoy going o the strip clubs, I don't have to tell any of you that.&nbsp; Women, on the other hand, are often not as understanding of that fact.&nbsp; Many of us have girlfriends, wives, or significant others who we care about.&nbsp; As a result of that, we must walk a delicate line in order to assess whether or not we should tell our significant others of whether or not we are going to a strip club or not.<br />
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First, I'm gonna come out and say that I believe (just my opinion) that what she doesn't know won't hurt her.&nbsp; I don't think that your significant other needs to be told you are going to the strip club to do whatever it is you choose to do there.&nbsp; Provided this is not an addiction or anything of that nature, and you're not spending money that you don't have, or that was supposed to be for something else. <br />
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Reasons not to tell:&nbsp; From what I've seen, women can be extremely insecure about the most minute things.&nbsp; Imagine the thoughts that may run through their minds when they find out you'd rather go to the strip club and oogle naked women instead of them.&nbsp; While you may have justifiable and legitimate reasoning, she won't want to hear it.&nbsp; Women I have dealt with become extremely defensive, sometimes angry, and sometimes embarassed of me and of themselves.<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;You are not cheating (provided you're not going for extras or anyhting).&nbsp; Everyone needs a change of pace once in-a-while, especially those of us who have been in relationships for long periods of time.&nbsp; You may need to blow off some steam after work, kill time on a business trip,&nbsp; have some fun with the boys, have some extra dough to burn, or you simply want to see beautiful women, naked.&nbsp; I'm being simplistic here but I believe that you don't need to tell your significant other regardless of whether shes trustworthy and you telll her everything, I don't feel it's being deceptive to not do so.&nbsp; It just brings up more conflict when they find out as opposed to you simply going a few times a month or year discretely and on your own time.<br />
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Sure, I can see the argument for keeping the relationship honest and open, and there are probably just as many women who do not mind their husbands or boyfriends going to the strip club.&nbsp; But from what I've experienced, it;s been a big no-no for me.<br />
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Hope you all don't hate this article, and it may be boring and pointless, but its just my opinion.<br />
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So what do you guys think?<br />
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Tell, or not to tell?