There is only one rule, if you want a real-life (non-transactional) relationship with a dancer/stripper, outside of the club. It's actually possible to make a real authentic friendship, to hook-up with, date or even marry a girl you met at a strip club and have a legit connection with.
How do i know this? Because I spent almost all of my twenties, as the master of ceremonies, for close to ten-thousand days and nights of bacchanalia, in 8 strip clubs, working and playing alongside 1000's of the most beautiful young women in the world (before IG, camming & OF), auditioning, hiring, firing, training, managing, promoting, protecting, advising, consoling, f*cking, dating, living with and even marrying a couple of these lovely acrobatic actresses of arousal, entertainers of adult fun and seductive soldiers of fortune.
These girls go to work to make money and to play the role of a hot naked girl that whos job it is to seduce, entertain and make every guy think they might actually have a chance with her... but the truth is you actually might have a shot if you can avoid the following pitfall;
The Golden Rule.; Never buy a lap dance from a girl that you would actually like to date.
The moment you pay for a dance, that's it, you are officially her customer and no longer a guy with whom she could ever authentically connect with outside of that house of smoke and mirrors or without a financial component at best.
She may make you think that she really likes you, that she misses you when you are not there, that she can't wait to get away from all those other annoying guys she has to go and sit with so she can get back to having a blissful time with you. She may even text you and say she really wants to see you again, that all these guys suck and all she wants to do is hang out with you... but its all part of the game, right out of the hustler's playbook and standard operating procedure. When you buy a dance you break that seal, because... you paid her, to perform for you, personally.
Now, here is another nugget of strip club wisdom;
You can and should tip her on stage, buy her a drink and have a great time, because tipping is like clapping, and every person that puts on a show needs to hear that roar of the crowd to know they are doing a good job and someone is paying attention.
So make it rain! Sit at the stage and fill up her garter, even when the club is dead. Especially when the club is dead! Just don't cross that black and white, hard line. IF YOU WANT A CHANCE, DO NOT BUY A DANCE.
And finally, a fun little cheat code that works like a charm;
When you go to a strip club with a group of friends, and there is a girl that you have already established with her, by turning down her offer, so she knows you're not interested in buying a dance...
Wait a bit and then give some money to your buddy on the DL. Tell him to call your girl over while you're at the bar or taking a piss. Tell him to buy a dance for you like a fun secret prank or gift, so that when you come back to your table, she grabs your hand and starts dragging you to the back while you play dumb and your friends egg you on.
Now you're getting to know her one on one (don't be creepy) and more importantly, you are helping her make money, without becoming her customer.
That's my two sense, take it or leave it.
DRD
