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DFreshPalace

California

It's a winter Sunday and the children are playing as the adults rush to get Christmas presents prepared for next week's big day.

As I write this article I go back to a recent discussion on the boards about getting a Dance at the Club from those who may have children at home. BREAKING NEWS! A lot of your dancers have children. Yes a big share of them don't as well but you would be surprised at the ones that do.

This should not come as a shock because this is how young mothers can provide for their children by making good money and knowing they are going to be well taken care of as long as they manage their money right.

Gone are the days of when I was a kid and my mom had to work 3 jobs to provide for 4 children as a single parent because if you have Looks That Kill and a Sex Appeal a Club will allow you to perform.

I know many young mothers who dance in clubs to provide for families not just their own kids but for their ill parents as well. A lot of Club Goers may not want to hear the stories of what dancers go through because they have heard it all before. I need a car, I need money for school, I have no marketable skills, etc. But again, you would be surprised at how many of those stories are true, including being a mother.

Does a mother dancing change how I feel? NO because I say if you can make your money go out and make it and you still are providing for the kids.

So what happens when the kids get older? That is up to the dancer to decide how to handle when the time is right. Nothing says you can't just say "I have a night shift"

So to all the Mothers who are Dancing With Children... Do What You Do... I Got Your Back!

Tip your waitress. They depend on the money too.