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I see a lot of people pose the question of How do I become friends outside of the club with a dancer? I will tell you first it can be done but it's not easy you really need to being understanding of her, the business and if you want the friendship to work patience is key. Over the next few paragraphs I will share stories of what it's like thinking you had a friend to only being scammed all the way to finding so much more than life could ever imagine you bringing you if you use my keys.

Flashback to Year 2001 I thought I made a friend outside of the club. We hit it off so well we did things together all the time. Lunches, Dinners, Movies, Shopping, Hanging out at Home. One night she was crying and when I asked her why she told me her car was stolen and had no way to get to work. So as a "Friend" I picked her up and took her to her Club and stayed for awhile. It was a Sunday night I was sitting at home and the phone rang when she said "Is it possible to go look for a new car Monday" Of Course it was. Long story short I was scammed and lied to. My trust was crushed. Her car that was stolen was Repoed and I bought a car she never planned to pay for.

Fast Forward to 2 years later after that. I was between appointments and thirsty and never would have dreamed of going into the Club I went into because it was an old run down club. Little did I know I was going to end up finding my Best Friend of last 15 years. She was on the other side of the room giving a lap dance and when she finished up she walked over to me near the DJ Booth. She was BEAUTIFUL. Asian Filipino Japanese Mix. I won't say how our conversation started but it went well. We hit off so well it was almost like we knew each other from another life. During our time of friendship we've had our share of joys and sadness from her getting named to Playboy Sexy Girl Next Door to a split of almost a year over something I did so stupidly it almost cost me the best thing to ever happen in my life. Now that she's retired from the business completely she's getting ready to get married to a GREAT Guy who we both really like as far as men go for her. He really treats her well and knows that I am a HUGE part of her life as she is mine and to this day we still can finish each other's thoughts.


Being a Writer I take you now to 2015 when I was having Writer's Block so I took a break and headed to a local club where I once again struck gold. When I walked into the club in the middle of the day she was already on stage on a slow Monday in April so I decided I should support her stage with no one else there. As she continued her 2 set dance we talked and seem to have really hit it off but when she finished she disappeared and as I waited for her to come out she never did until she came out with 2 other girls and sat with them. I kept looking over to hoping to grab her attention but to no avail. I will add when she's not dancing she is also a local artist who works at the club to earn extra money to show off her art at shows. Finally as I got ready to leave I approached her and told her how I wanted to speak with her but had to go. She gave me her Number and told me to text her when I got home. I'm not one to not follow a girls orders so I did just that. She proceeded to send me a photo and said now you can think about me until I see you again. Fast Forward about a month or so as we chatted via text now quite a bit she asked if I could give her a ride to work and that was the day a true friendship was born. She and I are like Brother and Sister we are always there to pick each other up when we feel down and depressed.

Finally My last, It was May of 2016 and I was about to give up the Club Life altogether when I gave it one more college try and you could say. It worked. It was a Sunday night and on I called to see if someone was working. The manager said no she no longer works here but if you liked her I have someone even better for you. I headed to the club and she was on stage and he wasn't wrong. HOLY SMOKES! What a beautiful vision. This girl makes guys dreams come true with her amazing beauty and though It's a work in progress with much more to be written I can't wait to see how it ends because this one is everything you can dream of and more.


So to answer the question Yes you can become friends with Dancers but it takes time, trust, respect to her as well as the profession and the willingness to know that it's a job and anything is possible but communication is key. Let them be who they are and don't question what they make. It's NOT Your Business to know. It's Good Money that's all you need to know.