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Hi5

South Carolina

My good friend, probably the only person that enjoys going to clubs as much as I do, called me and told me that his 19 year old nephew wants to go to a club and he wants him to take him. He calls me cause he doesn’t want to go alone and knows I would be down to go anyway. I find out a couple days before we go out that his nephew has now told a few of his friends, 8 to be exact and they all want to go now.

These kids are not what you would say are most coolest kids or confident kids. I arrived on a Saturday afternoon to my friends house and was greeted by him and only him. I asked where everyone is as we are suppose to be heading out and find that all 8 guys are upstairs in various forms of getting dressed. They are having discussions about how nice should they dress or should they dress down so not to look as they are trying to hard. It was amusing to watch and remember when this was my first time. I now dress with jeans and T-shirt. One kid went so far as to wear a very nice suit and tie.

We leave and arrive at a club that was suggested to these boys by another boy that been there with his brother's friends. This club was not a high end club nor was it a local dive. This place was very middle of the road. The club was topless and had a 2 drink minimum. The waitress that approach us didn't card any of these boys and they all had a drink but sipped on them for the entire time we were there. Now a funny thing happen when we arrived one kid turned into a very shy, more awkward then he already was and another boy turned into the confident strong take the lead type of person. He was saying hello to every dancer and being very out going not something I was expecting from this group of kids. The rest ranged from just wondering around looking at everything to others just staring at girls and snickering when one dancer probably at 7 came up to him and put her arm around him and try to get dance from him. I thought from the look on his face that he was going to shit and piss himself. He told me later when we sat down that he was not used to having such a good looking girl touch much less talk to him. The guy who was totally confident now went straight up to a girl, who was easily an 8, talked to her for few minutes and they both came over to sit and chit chat like the were old friends. I have to say I was very impressed by this kid. After some conversion he left to get dances with this girl who seemed very excited. When this guy came back he really had a great time as he had a very large stain on pants and did not know he had that big a stain until one of his friend point it out to him.

The other kids sat quietly and sipped on their drinks and would make comments about the dancers that would pass by or on stage. This place was all pink inside and only had one long stage in the middle of this medium size building. It was early in the evening around 7 so there were not very many customers, it was us and 4 other guys. The dancers seem somewhat bored when we walked in. Some dancers came to us and greeted our party very quickly. There was a bar to the left as you walked in and the private dance area was to the right, passed the bathrooms. There was not very much to this place. There were 9 dancers working that evening ranging from 3 to 7 and one very high 9. This girl was a very tall slender blonde while being slender had the curves in all the right places. She was easily the best looking girl in the place and no one would talk to her but she would also not go up to anyone and only asked for dances except a few times and then she would disappear. The other girls ranged from Hispanic, white, and one Asian girl. These boys who all liked anime and love the idea of Japan were very interested in the Asian girl, my friends nephew in particular and we kept telling him to go say hello, go talk to her, ask for a dance or invite her to come sit with you. I mean anything to get him off his ass to say something to a girl he was into. Finally I went up to the girl, I chatted with her a few minutes told her the deal about the nephew and if she could go over and show him a good time. She says she would love to. I give the money she wanted for the experience. (nothing too expensive; dances here cost 20 in the private area and 10 on the floor)

She walks over to him sits on his lap and she starts to talk to him. She seems to be having a great time with him and starts to touch him on his chest and even going down on his happy friend. She starts to give him a floor dance right there in front of everyone and these guys are all just in shock at how good she is moving, how sexual this is and how much fun there friend is having. The girl is trying super hard and at some point tries to kick her leg over my friend nephews head and kicks him right in the face. A loud scream comes follows and the nephew's glasses are not all crooked but he has the biggest smile on his face. The dancer turns around apologizes to no end. She gave him a few more grinds and then they went back to the private dance area after that. The nephew would end up getting the dancers number and started to see her on occasion but it didn't really go anywhere.

The guy who was wearing the suit and tie and looking like he didn't want to touch anything or make eye contact with anyone was sitting at the end looking very uncomfortable. He did like seeing the girls but I don't think a club was his type of thing. Every other guy had had at least one dance or gone up to the stage and tipped the girl. He was the only one left. I went to talk to him and finally convinced him to go tip the girl who was dancing on stage. He took my dollar up to the stage and waited for the girl to come over and then just kinda threw the dollar at her turned around and walked back to his seat. I was upset that the dollar was used incorrectly cause the dancer here would do something for your tip.

All in all the experience was interesting not only for these boys but for me to see the a different side the first time you see a club. The wide eye look, the unsure, awkward feeling, and then seeing a pretty girl walking around in nothing but thong at that age was mind blowing and then you could sit and talk with them. I take it for granted and am kinda jaded in a way now. I really enjoyed myself and getting to see it from a different lens again. It made me remember why l like going to these places.