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The context of this article is aimed at middle aged fugly PL's (pathetic loser) like myself. Also, this transcends random p4p (pay for play) OTC (outside the club) encounters.

So you meet and become enamored with a, sweet, smoking hot young dancer. Instinctively, you are drawn to her and want to become part of her life. Well, if she is fine, you better get in line behind every other PL that she gives dances to because we all want her.

Baby-doll hears so much BS from the PL's that she creates a hard shell blocking all random come-on's from the pervs she's giving dances to. Making herself available to PL's is not part of her hustle.

Okay, so below are tips that can break the shell and bring you into the baby-dolls life.

First, every encounter with the honey should be positive. When she sees you, she should know the encounter is going to be fun and prosperous for her. No guessing or work for her. When she is with you, she will make bank, have drinks and get food if she so desires.

Second, listen intently to whatever she says. Remember everything including birthdays, anniversary, life's events etc. Tactfully bring up past discussions topics every time you talk to her but don't dwell on them. Never lecture or offer advice on anything unless specifically asked to do so by the honey.

Third, keep the discussions non-sexual outside of VIP or when not getting LD's unless she takes the discussion there.

Fourth. Never any drama. Honey dances for someone else or doesn't return texts, you are cool with it. Tell her it turns you on to see her make money. Encourage her to spend time with other PL's so she can make money because you will always be there. Again, never anything dramatic or negative. Never.

Fifth. Slowly she will let you into her life. Do not act needy or clingy. Text her sparingly. At first, only to see when she will be working or to say something positive to her. At first, she probably won't return text's much until you win her trust.

Follow these steps. Have patience and do not lose hope. Eventually, she will probably let you into her life with a big whoosh. Suddenly, she wants to be Facebook friends, meet for lunch, introduce you to family/friends etc. You may even be startled with how deeply she will let you into her life. Congratulations, you have won her trust and you are now in her inner circle.

Soon, though, you find out your completely fucked because the baby-doll will never view you as a serious love interest. No, our status is of trusted friends that have been given insight to behind the scenes stripper life. This can be fun as shit but you will always be seen as an ATM on some level.

Fun, sensual, exciting, expensive and disheartening all at the same time. It is up to you to determine if it is worth the effort.

Happy hunting.