Yes, You Heard it Here. Entertainers DO Get Turned On While Dancing
So, I thought since I have been recently been getting this question (next to are there any back room catfights) that I should openly address it.<br />
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Here we go, and I am going to anwer it openly and honestly the way I do at work just as if I were talking poin blank to a client. That is absolutely, h#ll yes, and let me just stop and press pause for a brief moment here, and if you ask any dancer the same thing and she says no, she is either a) lying or b)gay or c) to ashamed/uptight with her own sexuality. I mean shock, shock the horror. What could be worse than to think that a women could actually receive pleasure from doing her job?<br />
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There are worse things and I will go ahead and outline them here for you guys. So, please when coming to the club, please bear in mind the following:<br />
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*Dress appropriately. We aren't talking tux here but let's leave the mullets and the 80's workout pants there in the 80's, please.<br />
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*Fresh breath goes a long way.<br />
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*If no one is tipping your favorite dancer, please feel free, she may be having a bad day. It only takes one. We appreciate it. It may start a chain reaction. Little things make a big difference on S-L-O-W days!<br />
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*Just have fun!!<br />
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Coming to a club is all about the art of fantasy. It is a time to have the chance to sit and chat with your favorite(s) girls or even get the chance to meet and mingle with some new girls. If you don't know some of the new faces, you can get to know them by way of introduction through some of your faves or just by testing the waters.<br />
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Either way, guaranteed you will have a blast the more you try to mingle. As always, Happy Lapping!<br />
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Am I talking to you open and honestly point blank the way I would at work to a client? No. Because at work I am working, I am a stripper, and I am liar.
When you get to insert your finger (s) and she is wet there is no denying /faking/lying going on there.
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i agree john. sometimes just a rub outside reveals what's going on inside.
there was a big debate here awhile back with some claiming it was only sweat. bs! i can decipher the difference between sweat and pussy juice.
Looneylarry, yes I enjoy having my butt touched. It's bliss
Seriously, I wouldn't put too much stock in the "wet pussy = turned on" idea. Aside from Stilettos example, I've met several girls for whom the same was true. I met one girl in KC who could basically get her*self* wet just by thinking about, not even touching herself, or being touched. Pretty quickly, too.
I'm not going to dispute the supposition that some, perhaps even many, girls do get turned on, but I'd be surprised if they were the majority. I've met too many girls who could fake even things like wetness.
I don't see any dichotomy/conflict/hypocrisy in enjoying ones work while expecting to be compensated for it.
Well,I felt that you were sincere and was turned on long before we went to the back room area - I felt that we just 'HIT IT OFF' from the getgo! It sure felt that way. You have a way that is confortable right from the start. You are a great dancer!!
Yeah, right! I'll believe it when I see it!
(See sarcasm above)
I am sorry to see such pessimism about Avalon's very positive article. I always allow dancers to grind on my leg during a dance. It turns me on if they pleasure themselves. One girl I know had 3 orgasms on my leg during a 1hr VIP. I believe it to be true because she told other dancers and they came and asked me about it
I am sorry to see such pessimism about Avalon's very positive article. I always allow dancers to grind on my leg during a dance. It turns me on if they pleasure themselves. One girl I know had 3 orgasms on my leg during a 1hr VIP. I believe it to be true because she told other dancers and they came and asked me about it
However, just like in the post from the woman in the UK in the "The truth about life as a lap-dancer" post, my skeptic bone starts twitching when someone tries to claim that it's the majority occurrence, or that *every* dancer they've ever met gets turned on or has had an orgasm while grinding on them. Like the previous example, I've witnessed first hand dancers who hated the job or just went through the motions.
Just like every other job and profession, there are going to be people who absolutely love it, and couldn't imagine doing anything else, and there are going to be people who hate it, but have to do it for some period of time.
I have had a few others over my 30+ years of clubbing really seem to be getting off and many of them I knew well, so I believe they were real.
Most? No, it is fake, but who gives a shit? I enjoy watching it and they like my money!.
I do remember one dancer who was dancing for me one time seemed almost to be moaning and did not count one dance because she wanted to keep going. I knew she was acting strange when one of the other dancers asked her if she was ok. She said yes. I suspected she was turned on. I don't usually see dancers act like that.
Guys like that are what I refer to as H.O.F.'s They are my Hall of Famers and go down in the record books as MY ATF to dance for! Why? Because they were always charming, pleasant, sexy, witty. Guess what the fantasy DID work both ways. Although I NEVER did see Larry B.C. (Big cock) outside of the club his memory will forever live on. Believe me dancing for guys like that IT IS not at all for one moment mechanical nor rehearsed in any way.
It's too bad you aren't based in the RM West
Where I've seen the truly "turned on" dancer exist consistently is when you develop a "club" relationship with them. There's been an opportunity to breakdown barriers, get to know them - what they like and don't like. This lends itself to a "letting go" aspect that when you get down to it should be the catalyst for allowing said dancer to be "turned on"....
That said, there has been an instance recently that defies my "gotta have the club relationship" theory on this. I met this girl for the first time several months ago at a club. Talked for about a minute and went straight back for a dance. To this day, I'll never understand how she had me sooooooo turned on BEFORE we even got in the room. Anyway, our time in the room was smoking hot, she gets all kind of wet and we just clicked with this certain unmistakable chemistry. No further dialog with her even after the room. Then, I don't see her for several months. When I do, it was towards the end of a long night at the club with the boys - but I see her and I'm immediately f#ckn rock hard. Being the end of the night, all I had time for was to hold her tight, press my hard cock on her and find out when she's working next. She smiled, was so sweet and again no real dialog except to set up a date.....So I go into the club next time to see her based on this context, and we literally spend hours together....We intentionally started real slow, and kept building and building as the passion burned....She had me rock hard the whole F#ckn time, and she was truly amazing....To this day, I've never seen anyone so geniunely turned on in a club as she was that night....
I remember one gorgeous babe in Beverly Hills who I sat down at the stage to watch, and she took one look at me and started to give me her "special treatment" right there on the stage, a part of which was somersaulting into my lap so that she ended up with her crotch in my face, and the sex odor (you know what I'm talking about! that's how you know, not from wetness alone!) was so powerful it got me turned on. Afterward in the VIP, where we went at it for all it was worth but were very limited by prowling bouncers, she said to me (the odor still very powerful and tasty!), "Is there somewhere we can go and just ... fuck?"
She was turned on all right, so much so that when I came back to the club a few months later and saw her, she remembered me so well that she did that trick on the stage (the odor still there!) again, and then gave me a real show in the VIP (I took her down the street for a few drinks first at her request, which really loosened her up!). I never saw her there again after that (I wonder if she got canned for getting too frisky), but she clearly was turned on.
So like I say, it depends...