Can't wrap my head around what just happened

These reviews have helped me so I'll try my best with my first review.

It was a Friday afternoon and I planned my whole day around visiting La Pearl/Outer Space bc I knew I was getting out of work early. I showed up at 3pm but the bouncer told me it wouldn't be open for 30 more minutes. Went to Atlantis to kill some time. Had a decent time there, got two dances and a hand shake, but my money was running out fast so I came back to La Pearl around 4:20 pm to check out those $5 lap dances

Bouncers were real cool and surprised I came back. I'll say, I'm a white guy and this is a predominantly black club. I had my concerns because growing up in North Jersey I used to get harassed by black guys on several occasions. I got slapped randomly one time at a black club and had the police involved on a few occasions. I guess I have that look that I'm a punk, but I'm much more conident now and I can't resist attractive black women, so I said screw it. But