ForwardSpirit4236

I should have posted this somewhere else, probably not a lot of us in VIP

LOL no license, just bribe us

One of my favorite dancers in Miami from years past is a beautiful cuban girl who is married also. We have a really good connection and no expectations for anything more than ITC. I recently met someone really special in Miami who I could really fall in love with, but again, I can't offer her anything in the way of a real relationship. I can only offer money, advice, my company, conversation, maybe a nice trip somewhere, dinner, backrubs, sex. I wish things were different, but they aren't.

I have fallen in love with one dancer over the years, and infatuation/limerence with a couple others over the years. I am one of the few people who don't mind what they do, even ITC/OTC. People have a habit of opening up to me and dancers are no exception. Probably around 80% that I see repeatedly end up telling me their life story and I enjoy listening. I don't try to solve their problems or get involved, other than paying them well for services and tipping well. But I'm also married and in a difficult marriage. So I try to avoid getting too attached nowadays and I let girls know my situation right away because I have had a few young ones get attached to me and then become very depressed when I don't leave my wife and get a divorce. If I'm lucky, I'll be free from marriage by the time my kids graduate and then I could have a better relationship, but for now I look for the more emotionally mature girls who are able to make a connection and share with me, but understands its just about money or something advantageous for her, and affection, dances, love, kissing ,sex, whatever she is willing to trade comfortably. I'm not trying to come off as arrogant. Of course most dancers are just there to make money and have a good time as much as they can and aren't going to get attached to me. I'm only referring to the few edge cases of maybe 3 out of hundreds. I always try to find a girl I like, treat her well, and then leave her alone. Most girls want my phone# and try to keep in touch texting with me and I don't mind it. I generally only text them back when they text me, because I don't want to be that annoying guy. Anyway, good luck, let us know what happens. The odds are slim, but you might have met the one.

There are negatives sure, but the child may have some advantages as well. Make the best of it.