Comments by Julia80920

@Mark94 summed it up very nicely. What we saw was "frogs in slowly warming water" for decades. Saul Alinsky, "Rules For Radicals" - "They have the guns and therefore we are for peace and for reformation through the ballot. When we have the guns then it will be through the bullet." Alinsky was all about "Community Organizing" - just remember the POTUS who BRAGGED about this. The Left has done a truly magnificent job between taking over public ed starting when Carter established the Dept of Ed back in the late 1970s, to working the streets for votes, harvesting ballots, not cleaning up voter rolls, anti-voter ID, mail-in ballots during COVID-19, "white supremacy", calling anyone who disagrees "racist", cancelling (which I find interesting as the Democrat Party is the Party of slavery/segregation and yet was never canceled - and they treat AAs like they are still on the Planation), and and stocking the courts & colleges for decades with leftist judges & professors - look at the 9th, or Associate Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson who has had multiple opinions, a lot, overturned by the SC where she now sits for life. Like it or not, the Left was conducting a cold coup with cowardly RINOS "in bed" with them.

I want to be clear: I don't care about race or color or culture as long as they are attractive, not over-done, friendly and in-shape for what they do for a living; there is honor in any job. And sure lots of people have their preferences - nothing at all wrong with that, the spice of life. Being able to speak decent English is good. I've had a few trips to Germany, and the majority people spoke English quite well - much appreciated. A few places I went to only spoke German, and clearly it was my problem as I was a visitor in their country. @oscarlomax: SPOT-ON!

I was trying to make a non-political, open observation that on "mainstream" SM sites would I'd get slammed. I felt comfortable bringing it up here, was curious. I'm just an run of the mill "girl next door" type I've been told. And, I like to have fun, not crazy stuff. We learn a lot from discussing even those sensitive topics we've been slammed with. This wasn't about racist things and stuff, it was an observation. As a nurse you have no idea how much I had to suck-it-up with COVID and a lot of the Woke Cancelling I saw when doctors had discussions of what was working to help patients and what wasn't. If they didn't follow the "talking points" & "Narrative" when COVID was new, they were hammered and sent to the shadows. I was so pissed off I almost went to practice as an RN on my own providing home care services. When was brought in from a horrible car wreck and later died and also tested positive for COVID-19, the COVID-19 box was checked off, not that the person had an Intracranial Hemorrhage from the crash, especially with helmetless motorcycle accidents. But, I digress... In this case, sure, I knew I was brushing up to the 3rd rail, yet, here I felt pretty comfortable from what I've read over the past months of being here. @Wallanon: We haven't been out in a long time. And I stick to my local experiences. I expect dancers to be somewhat fit, not six-pack stomachs or <15% body, just be take care of yourself. Interesting you went into my reviews - I find that refreshing as you are looking to be informed and know a bit what of what I've said. Big Hug! @Call.Me.Ishmael (love that handle! I felt bad for the whale...) Yep, I get regional demographics for sure, and the type of clubs around from dives to mid-range to high-end; we prefer the mid-range clubs, place we can hang out, have some fun with friendly girls. @Mickey48066: Spot-on. The Woke Mob wields a lot of power for a lot of reasons that pisses me off beyond belief. Yet, I have to roll with it as I don't have the resources (money) to risk getting cancelled like so many. I will say I have seen some "bad" white dancers. Just to be clear I was making generalities based on observations. @Nicespice why was this cringe-worthy? @Cashman1234: my then-BF told me about a NJ club called the Erotic-something Cafe (???) that was a creepy dive yet the girls were friendly like 15-20 years ago when he was like 20. This was about the time I was curious about clubs and went with my close BFF GFs while in college.

Nice to see another girl here!

You saw a few couples? My BF and I have been to clubs in Colo. Springs. How did the girls interact with them? $500 sounds a tad steep. Was their a fee for the private room then the girl too?

What's a ROB?

OK, so I read your critique. Did your GF like like her dances? i read the club's website and they said no touching. Don't get me wrong, I prefer men, however I enjoy fun too.

I have a trip to Erie (home town) coming up this Fall? How they about couples as my fiancé and I are finally ENAGED! Thoughts on how much fun we can have with the Bed VIP?

More details would have been nice from your wife's POV! Glad I'm not alone.

@eastcoaster: Thank you! You are too kind. In case people try to find me, yes, my first Name is Julia, and the last name is my great-grandmother's birth last name (calling it maiden is just lame); girl gots to be safe with other "Arizona Turd Blossoms" skulking around for unwanted attention. And yes, I do live locally. For my b'day later this fall, we are planning my b'day at a strip club maybe in Denver (we'll spend the night up there.) I'll be checking the Denver reviews for a decent place. So far, PT's looks promising, we'll see. Arizona Turd Blossom - way too funny! I kind of gathered he's a PITA. However, I'm glad he is out here exposing himself (that way, not the other - EWWWWWWW). No harm will come from a ATB (that's the first time I've heard THAT one!). My GF came over for dinner tonight, we do this a couple times a month. Grill-up some filets, fresh corn is now available, and nice a bottle of Meritage while we watch a few Hallmarks movies; I know the comments going thru heads (the one on top) "she watches Hallmark movies???" Well, yes, and I like Monty Python, not the Three Stooges (what's up with THEM), and Jason Statham movies (yeah he's hot AND he does really good action/adventure flicks like "Safe" - even "The Expendables" series is good but no so much "Fast & Furious" although my older brother had a '68 black Charger like in "Bullit". Anyway, where was I, oh yeah - ATB. I just showed her some of his Comments, and her reaction was to "someone needs to set him on fire and put him out with an ice pick." Rude bastard. Two years ago I had my own ATB patient. Thought he was all that. He had a catheter (I know this is a brutal thot for guys) that needed changing. He had been in a fight the previous night and got a good beat-down. He rang the call button, I headed in, he had this weird grin and I noticed he was starting to "pitch a tent". I asked what he needed and said "it" needed changing. I pick up my phone, took a fake call and said I was just called to an emergency, and the next nurse would be right in. I sent in a gay male nurse, not that there us anything wrong with being gay, he was just being a real obnoxious jerk. He was in a for a 3 more days and was a whole lot nicer after that. I won't put up with shit like that.

Can't compare 2020 to 2022. Things are much better now from 18 months ago. We had a great time.

@marletto: you review helped, and it was spot on! Thank you!

@mogul1985: what you described is what we experienced, we may have had the same Cuban chick? Who knows, had we had fun and that is what I wanted for my bf's b'day. Thanks for your review.

@flipped: had a good time with our visit. Thanks, your review helped.

@Deseretscrub: WTF!!!! I used this site to find a nice cool (not skanky) place, and all reviews for SF were accurate from what we experienced - WTF is your prob? Ever been here????? WELL? Even the waitress was sweet, and I tipped her well - she's not dancing (not making much, and I'm sure customers are probably cheap as they save for the dances) although some day she should as she was a lot nicer than the fatties shaking their asses, titties & muffin tops - just not my thing. I keep in shape. I'm no athlete but I hit the Peloton 4 days a week and get in a good 3 mile walk a day w/my Collie, and I'm in good shape (firm ass, no muffin top, no "enhanced boobs" although not as firm as they were when I was 24, no tats) as my BF describes "the girl next door". As far as dancers go, If you are doing male entertainment, stripping for MONEY, I suggest they get a gym membership, back off on the tats and overly heavy make-up. Meanwhile, back to YOU, keep it civil and friendly, we have enough negativity in life today. I work in health care (hospital nurse) and I've seen enough shit the past 2.5 years that I'm sure would get you to "run away" like Robin Hood in "Monty Python & The Holy Grail". Get a life, try and have a good time Mr. Grouchy. We had a great time, and I WANT TO THANK ALL WHO TAKE THE TIME TO POST HERE - THANK YOU SWEATHEARTS!

@Flyer78: B**** told us VIPs were 3/$100. She said she doesn't get many couples, knew it was by BF's b'day, and gave us a good time at a good price for the 2 of use @3/$120. We did do 2 sets and I could just tell she liked me, and BTW I'm not bi, but I do appreciate the sexuality girls can bring and pretty open (just not THAT open). She was as discreet as possible with her contact with us using her body to block "wandering" eyes/cams (I did see the biker come in and nudge on guy to back-off so they do watch to some extent). A private room would have been better, SF is what it is for Colorado Springs (this isn't Southern Florida). She was very friendly and fun maybe because she was closer to our age? She looked like she was in her mid-to-late 20s; if a chick is going to get all over me, she best be hot, and like I said I appreciate having a good sexy time, just not all the way.