Comments by BlondeGirlLover

What should someone do when they're so infatuated and can't stop fixating?

Sirachabob, that’s a good point… strippers do have boyfriends. And most high value guys don’t want a stripper because they can do better. Which makes me think that it’s the macho jerks who get them.

@25 but you only. go if you're sold on the fantasy. Deep down that is the reason why all of us go.

@Cashman1234 if you believe they only want your money, then why do you go? Once you realize that, it’s best you stay away.

@Cashman1234 No I don’t know who the other accounts are. Not me. I am listening through but I might have mild autism.

@ceoticeesangelsllc She always keeps in contact. She would even text me at 2 am about how she’s feeling about things going in her life. Long texts too. So she could at least let me know she wasn’t coming. Or just say sorry. Saying sorry would make me give her more money.

@ whodey So you are saying you don't even have self-respect for yourself? You believe we are all pathetic, including yourself?

@Cashman1234 So you’re saying it’s better to take the loss than to stand up for yourself? Who has more self respect then?

So guys let me ask you. If your ATF did this, how would you respond? Still keep her on your pedestal or just ignore her and see other girls and she becomes just another dancer? You guys do have ATF cuz you use the references. I would think that if you have self respect, you wouldn’t just treat her like a Queen.

@twentyfive It's not that. If I lived close by it wouldn't be the same deal. I like well over an hour away. That cost gas and time. Time is one of the most precious things that we have. Gas is a lot these days. This is about having some self-respect, don't you agree?

See the thing about some of your replies is it seems almost as if the club has superseded reality. You're giving them permission to behave this way. I'm not talking in terms of treating you like a king. You realize that in the real world it costs gas and time to go to the club. Just because they're a stripper doesn't mean they aren't human. If someone were to do this do you 10 times would you say it's no big deal? Just try to have some perspective. Just because a girl is naked, doesn't mean human concepts disappear.

@Call.Me.Ishmael Seems like an encouraging post. Maybe I was getting worked up. Even though it's not the same thing as a date, I still believe that people follow through with people or customers. I did get a dance with her friend actually. My friend thinks that she is BSing me. Do you think it's possible she couldn't text me cuz of the wifi at her work? She's texted me before at her work. It seems odd.

If you don’t intend on getting a dance and they ask if they can sit with you and if they start chatting with you, do you just tell them no right away before they ask? What about when they start sitting on your lap?