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2 years ago
Dear Stripper Diary: FUCK THESE MEN! ...a rant Excuse me, but are you a MAN replying to me? I think you're lost. I can't believe the moderator here let's men read and comment! And just so you know, you MAN, I do know everything about everything. And I don't hate all men, I just hate these customers! I can't believe they have the audacity to see me at my work and support the small business that is me. God, I hate men!!!! π‘
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2 years ago
Dear Stripper Diary: FUCK THESE MEN! ...a rant Jfc... That was painful to write. I hurt my brain and lost brain cells. Totally worth the r/Stripper troll though and I tried to include all of the popular rants and bs.
BTE - don't fucking comment. You're not welcome to comment on my posts. And please, nobody acknowledge the retard or respond to his idiocy should he forget how to read and disrespectfully comment here anyway.
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2 years ago
BigThirdEyeAlso, I hadn't been on SCL in a good minute. Kudos to the owner or webmaster for cleaning that site up. It looked... cheap, disheveled, and unorganized before the redesign.
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2 years ago
BigThirdEyeI Googled the dumbb fuck's user name with "StripClubList" and some of his trash comments are still viewable via Google cache. Good God. What a fucking loser.
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2 years ago
BigThirdEyeI'm unfamiliar with cacaplop. I tried to look up his account and couldn't find it. I'm assuming they were here during my several months hiatus between my old account and this one.
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2 years ago
BigThirdEyeHe has to be someone's troll account. There's no way somebody is that outrageously ignorant and stupid of common sense stuff.
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One That club was known for being one of Detroit's dominant extras clubs back when they were a thing in the city. There are stragglers who come in and test the waters.
Hey, BTE, I don't know what you're saying, but kindly fuck off from my post. Your trolling isn't welcome in these comments, loser. Go get your ass wrecked by SJG or get hit by a car or some shit.
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2 years ago
BigThirdEyeThe boards are wonderful with him on ignore. I feel everyone should collectively stop answering his bs troll questions and seriously ignore him. Maybe that'll get him to fuck off away from here.
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One "I am also undeterred by her limits because, as a rick, I am frickinβ smooth. Iβm talkinβ smooth with extra oβs, just to emphasize how frickinβ smooth this rick is."
You had me there. β€οΈ
I'll be on my way after I wake up (if insomnia ever let's me even sleep at all).
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One What I usually do if the customer is acting gay and afraid of lady parts is grab his hand and make him grab on to one boob and then put his other hand on my opposing butt cheek. He's no longer a little bitch about it and I'm safe and secure for the rollercoaster ride of a lap dance. If they get weird with my nips, I remind them not to do that or try to brush his hand away. It depends on my tolerance for customers at the time and if he's being respectful/disrespectful in other ways.
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2 years ago
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One BTE is commenting? Ugh. He can fuck off with his annoying questions. Literally nobody can be that obtuse and nagivate the internet (this site). I don't even want to know what idiot questions he's pretending to not know the answers to. π
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One Oh, no. Touching is fine. Cup them. Grope them. And if the customer doesn't want to, I usually make them do it. But don't try to fine tune radio stations using nips. That stuff hurts and nobody should ever go that far in a dance.
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One Later in the evening, I went to VIP with another guy who wasn't quite as weird, but just pissed me off in VIP as much as the first guy did. I think he was Chaldean and he had a very thick accent with broken English but he said he had been there before so I figured he knows how shit is now. He just kept trying to test my physical limits and my boundaries on what I was willing to do. I had to yell at him twice and stopped the dance the third time when he tried to suck on my boob without asking and play with my nips. One of the first things I tell anybody when we sit down for a dance is no penetration and do not play with my boobs or nips. And I know he understood me when I said that - he just didn't care. When we were on our way to the vip, he said that he wanted two dances, but he only ended up getting one. Which was completely fine with me and I was not in the least bit upset at all over it. I was thankful, if anything. I retreated to my friends who are with a customer at the bar and they made him buy me a drink and a shot after I told them that I had two awful customers in a row and what that one had just tried with me. That customer ended up being really frickin cool and tipped me quite well on stage when I went up the next time.
Well I was venting to him, a gentleman who is sitting on the other side of me tapped my shoulder to compliment my tattoo. He said he had overheard what I said so he wasn't trying to come off weird like those two other customers, but he was also a believer of what my tattoo represents. And then he and the other customer began chatting and bought each other drinks. I feel like I was in the way of their date all of a sudden lol. Ultimately, the customer who complimented my tattoo took me up to VIP for some (finally!) normal and respecting of my boundaries dances.
But fuck those first two customers I had. I hope none of you gentlemen on this forum act like either of those guys in VIP.
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One So, he asked me to sit with him after our 7pm night shift review. I usually don't hustle customers until after my first stage set, but I figured he would at least be a good warm-up conversation for the rest of the night. I didn't ask him for a dances. He asked me. I have a very distinguishable Eastern religion related tattoo on my back that gives an instant boner to most Eastern Indian men. And this guy was Eastern Indian. He was someone I would have avoided otherwise.
He said he moved to Texas from the Detroit area in 2015 and is in the process of moving back right now after acquiring a really good job with one of the largest employers in the area. I didn't ask him to elaborate further.
He asked me where I live and I told him the suburb. He the asked "where do you live in ____?" And I told him I live on a street at a place in said suburb without naming any street or a place. After that, he just got weirder and weirder with his questions.
We went upstairs to VIP and the DJ skipped me for free on stage so I can make money. I was the first one to do dances all night long. I thought we were going to only do one song, but he wanted a second (with how draining he was, I wish it had only been one song lol, it was way too early to deal with that much out of one customer). The first dance was mostly him trying to flick one of my goddamn boobs after I told him twice to not do that. After the third time I stopped the dance and I told him he can either stop doing that or we can just stop dancing. He apologized and we continued on to the second song where he began interrogating me with all of the questions.
I forgot to write about the part where he told me, "I know you want to make out with me. You should just kiss me." I told him that's not allowed and I don't do that at that club. He then said something along the lines of "well you should do it anyway because I know you're a bad girl." And thank God the VIP bouncer walked through the aisle way at that moment. It could not have been any more perfect timing for him to make an appearance. The second song ended with him reiterating that we should be roommates until he finds a place to live and that he is looking to live in a city next to mine (fuck, lol).
When I got out of the dances, the DJ went ahead and put me up upon my own request. I spent that stage set processing what had happened during the dances and how it was way too fucking early in the shift for that bullshit. While I was up on stage, that weird ass customer left, thankfully.
When I was done, I joined my two friends working with me and I did tell them. It wasn't as a warning or anything like that. It was more of a venting and hoping that they could also try to help me process the trauma I had just endured. If the customer had remained in the club, it was so slow that early in the shift that word would have spread quick about him. If it had been on a Friday or Saturday evening I probably wouldn't have said anything or given any warnings due to how busy it gets in there. It would have been easy to lose him in the crowd, too. Hopefully that makes sense.
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One Did Icee say something important for once, y'all? They are on ignore, but I can see they commented something (most likely spewed bullshit trying to tell me off, I'm a troll, I'm a man, or how to do my job).
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One ^ I briefly questioned my fate and if DG had found me. The customer definitely gave off some DG and SJG vibes the more I sat with and danced for him.
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2 years ago
I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One ^ lmfaoooo πππππ
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2 years ago
Dancers who dont want to be treated like hookers and dont want to feel guilty? BTE, where in the fuck from the vast emptiness of your mind did you conclude that I said any of that? Are you that incapable of understanding a woman where you have to interpret the complete opposite of what they say? This is completely rhetorical and I'm ignoring you from now on because you're nothing more than a waste of space and another useless member of these forums. Have a wonderful day and good luck with whatever you're using all of this free information from us for, you fucking piece of shit. β€οΈ
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2 years ago
Dancers who dont want to be treated like hookers and dont want to feel guilty? ^"Sometimes though they just learn to put up with it."
That's saying we deserve to be cat called or raped based off of what we wear. No fucking wonder I had you blocked on my old account. I forgot how disturbingly dumb you are.
Sometimes, you should just learn to put up with everyone's opinion of you and learn your place.
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2 years ago
Still great!^ do not openly name dancers, please. PM the douche, but don't endanger anyone's job publicly.
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2 years ago
Bitch ripped me off.lmfao. There is another side to this story I'd love to hear. You probably deserved it though. π