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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
I think its possible to get pretty lost, lonely and isolated in today's world by accident or happenstance. The problem with the whole incel thing is they just wallow in it and complain instead of taking active measures to try expand their social options or take any risks. Also, most of them are young and have never even tried to begin with.
I recently realized that I have almost no friends, nearby, and no real opportunities to casually meet new women to date. I have a full time job in IT for years, upward career, no issues socially talking to people, dated fine in the past to various degree's of success, etc but I still find myself in this spot. Meeting women at work is not an option as frankly these days its a pretty big career risk if you make a pass or it turns bad and secondly all the women are work are married, taken, or way to old. With no friends the friend of a friend option does not exist. It's been a struggle to get out of the situation as I work 60+ hours a week but it is going slowly but surely.
I do sympathize with some of the "stacy" stuff as It is always depressing when you see some hot 23 year old girl doing cam, dating some horrible loser, or taking it up the ass in some porn show for barely any money and your left wondering why you can't find a date this month. It can be a real downer if you let it eat at you.