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8 years ago
As far as her love life she has told me she was dating her roommate/best friend. Happens to be a girl but says they get along better as friends so one is trying to move out.
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8 years ago
From what she has told me she doesn't really work at the club unless she knows she's gonna be short financially. Like I said before I don't think she is the smartest girl but I don't think she's all the dum either. I don't really expect a relationship out if this but I would like to hit it once or twice more and if it turns into something else awesome if not no big deal. When I told her I might be able to help if we could work something out. Did I make it clear enough what that means?
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8 years ago
@papi_chulo
I wouldn't mind spending on her what I would normally in the club if I could hit it a little.
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8 years ago
Appreciate all the advice guy's but wish I had a dancers take on this. It just sucks because most signs point toward a hustle but it just don't really feel like one.
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8 years ago
@pphw as bad I would like to I'll keep myself from texting her unless she texts me.
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8 years ago
@txtittyfag wtf is your problem BRO? I came here for advice on a situation and all you could do is muster up some shitty puns and your a internet thought guy. Wow shaking in my little pink texas boots. Grow a pair and try your bs in real life ROFL hajajajajajaj
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8 years ago
@ppwh maybe it would be ok for me only if I'll be able to smash once or twice more. After today sounds like there's a couple guys on here that know this feeling all to well and have given me some decent advice. So do I just not text her again until she texts me or just go to the club on the 3rd consecutive Thursday and hope she will be there?
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8 years ago
@txtittyfag seems that because I said I sell used cars I hit a nerve. Sorry but I'm not gonna drop to your level and get into a internet pissing match.
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8 years ago
@papi_chulo thanks because this is all pretty new for me as I have only been to strip clubs roughly 10 times or so. When I ask my buddys to go I usually say let's go to the girls.
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8 years ago
@papi_chulo that's what one would assume but she hasn't responded since asking me how I'm doing. When I met her this last Thursday she mentioned she was gonna work Friday but didn't mention anything about Saturday. The other thing that runs across my mind is she is so hot that im sure there isn't any problem for her keeping busy on a Friday or Saturday so maybe I'm a Thursday night special? I have only spent about $350 on her so i don't think she's gonna consider me her best paying customer yet.
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8 years ago
Small update for you guys. She texted me a few hours ago just asking me how I'm doing. I replied a few times with nothing back again. If some of you is generally interested let me know and I'll keep you guys updated
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8 years ago
Thanks for all the comments guys. I get that sc are not where you go to find real relationships. I was just getting out of such a bad one within the last few weeks that I just felt it might be a good place to let loose and have a little fun but what I ended up with Is a bit more than I'm really ready for but what Im getting to is I don't wanna pass up a good thing if it's there but I don't wanna be led into something that ain't.
Not in a row but all in one night. I do have a terrible gambling problem $300-$400 a few times a week so not saying that's ok but after what got for $200 I feel like a fool gambling lol. So basically I'm ok going to a sc and spending a decent amount.
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8 years ago
@papi_chullo I would be ok with any of those as long as my feelings ain't gonna get jerked around. Im coming out of a messed up relationship as it is and I just don't wanna tied up into something that isn't there such as friends, friends with benefits, or whatever this is. I mean of course I wanna smash her one more time at least but just need a better understanding of what page we on.
@ppwh when I asked I pretty much knew that it was gonna be to busy because last week there was NOBODY in the lap dance area and this time at least 3 to 4 people around. She doesn't seem like the most intelligent person in the world but I don't think she's a dummy either. Not to sound like a stalker but I was worried enough about catching something I Facebook searched her number and got her real info. I googled her and she comes from a really good military family and she seems to have no online postings for escort and what not. Yes there are some girls that will ask you for extras here but mine pretty much waited for me to bring it up.
Honestly my last relationship started when I was 18 and I never cheated but like most men occasionally flirted with some girls that would flirt with me so my confidence level is not real high and I haven't tried to pick a girl up in so long that's it's like I don't even remember how lol.
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8 years ago
@txtiityfg if you feel im a troll then don't comment. Thanks
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8 years ago
So it sounds like this is probably just a good hustle. Do you guys recommend waiting it out a whole week to visit her at the club or Do i text small talk or ask to meet up somewhere or Do i just text her asking where we really stand and regardless I'm still gonna come see you at work?
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8 years ago
@dougster if she has asked me that therewould be no reason for this post other than to brag ;)
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8 years ago
@subraman oh ya trust me in know from experience that theres always someone who is a better huster than you.
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8 years ago
@papi_chullo unfortunately I don't feel it would be wise choice to say what club she works at. No troll here just a real person with real questions
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8 years ago
@papi_chullo yes like I said I don't seem me marriage in our future but friends with benefits or even dating for a week or so would be fun
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8 years ago
@txtittyfg what would I get out of trolling on a message board other than a waste of time? Not gonna sit here and defend car salesman cause most do suck but not all. Thanks for your input.
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8 years ago
@s88 so I mean as far as sc boyfriend I guess I wouldn't really be ok with that unless she actually wants to give me and dance and not my wallet. I would be ok with if she just tells me she was hustling me. Ya shes feeding me the reason I didn't want to meet you before OTC is after talking she figured out I'm not there just hoping to smash any ass I could get. I'm sure there's some that use that line a lot. What I meant by no touching was she didn't jerk me but I was allowed to touch pretty much anything I wanted. So there is no problem there. The watchingher dance thing she said she needed a wingman if you will and a honest opinion on what she is doing wrong cause she doesn't have many pole tricks. She said you don't even have to throw any money just sit right in front. The talking in the back was after we was finished and I asked how much I owed. She then said $140 but I'm pretty sure it was probably at least double because the top came off. I said we needed to get change and she just kept talking and sitting in the lap dance chairs holding me and telling me about the massage idea and she is very much into hands and we joked about her giving me a hand job (massaged my hands for 10 mins). I was already there when she texted me she was coming to the club tonight so i know for sure her night just started.
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8 years ago
@ppwh yes I totally agree she's a rebound chick but my goal is to be like I said possibly fwb she's much hotter than girls I'm used to chatting with it hanging with. As far as the diseased whore ya I'm guilty of asking her right after we was finished and then again in a text message but she seemed as worried as I was about it and pretty much assured me that she understands why I keep asking her that. As far as we couldn't do what we did last time she said we could get in really big trouble and it was just too many people around this time but that she wishes we could.
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8 years ago
@jamesSD when I read my post and all the comments that's what it feels like but I am a used car dealer by trade so I like to think I have a pretty good knack for reading people and I have a good idea when they are honest and like I said my gut is telling me she isn't playing me but just trying to get your guys opinions on how or what to do.
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8 years ago
Ya I had that twice with 2 different girls in the same night. Also ended up getting it in with a different girl. I guess it was a lucky night.
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8 years ago
Std* not cards that would be weird.