discussion comment
3 years ago
Maybe I am going to the wrong strip clubs or they just aren't my cup of tea. In my experience, the nights when the best variety of hot women are there also means it is packed with other guys and regulars. There is also no guarantee the stripper you end up with is even WILLING to do FS. I would guess that the less appealing ones would be. That and the fact that stripper willing to do FS, in the back room of a club has done it lots of times before and is likely full of STDs. At least quality escorts get tested and some even limit the amount of guys they see. Before covid, I used to go for lapdances and I enjoyed that. Even at that, 95% of the time was a bust where either the girl did not give a good LD or I was just sitting in the club listening to awful music for hours while the hottest women had regulars or would not even make eye contact and the unattractive ones would not leave you alone and you had to be almost rude for them to get the hint. I guess if you are a regular it's a different story. All the girls at the club know you and you have better options. I just don't have the time or inclination to spend the time and money to be a regular. If I were gonna go FS, I'd find an escort with good reviews and recent pictures and do that. As far as strippers looking better... I can't count the number of times that a woman looked really hot and amazing on stage and when she was sitting up close, didn't look as nice. I'd sometimes go during the day and when I was leaving, I'd see some of these women out near the door having a smoke in the daylight. Yipes. I was just curious though, not planning to do FS at either. Covid lockdown has given me some time to think. I went only occasionally for a few years and the most I did were lapdances. Even at THAT if I could go back in time and get all of that money back,not to mention time, I could take a nice trip to Vegas or a country with legal and well managed prostitution and see a different dream girl every night if I did my homework and found the best places with the best reviews.
discussion comment
5 years ago
Thanks to all, this is some great info! I do, in fact have VIP membership but was curious in a general sense what people thought about the options. I did venture to RI dolls before at least a year or so ago despite my desire to avoid RI area. Maybe it was a bad day but it was one of the worst experiences I have had in a S.C.
First, they asked to scan my license which I don't like and I probably should have declined and walked out at that point.
Next, the unattractive dancers were VERY pushy, with one overweight woman who I could not get rid of despite telling her I was not interested. Real turn off! I try to be polite but you almost have to be rude for them to get the message and then you risk pissing off a bouncer. Had one dance and it was nothing really special. The dancer was really direct about what I could do and it ended up being a turn-off because she was not really that attractive up close and her directness just made it kinda clinical and dispassionate. I heard good things about this club in reviews and maybe it was just a bad day but it's also in RI and I don't want to run into people who might recognize me so have not been back. Also, again, not crazy about having my license scanned just to walk in the door.
Marios was my go to place for a long time. Seemed the best option in Mass. Problem is that most of the time it did not pan out, or I'd find a dancer I'd like and she would not be there the next time. Also, they raised their prices and in all honesty the majority of the dancers (at least in the afternoons when I'd often go), were too old or overweight. The hot dancers would not even seem to acknowledge you. That's been the problem with these places, the girls you are attracted to seem to have an unapproachable or disinterested attitude and the ones you are NOT attracted to, you often have to try and get rid of because they don't take no for an answer in some cases.
I also have a hard time spending even an hour in these places with nothing happening. It juuust seems like a huge waste of time. Sitting there waiting for a dancer I am attracted to, who is not with a regular and shaking off the pushy dancers who are not attractive. I also can't stand most of the typical music in these places, either crappy selections of classic rock or hip hop/current pop.
I don't see where there is anything similar though, where you can drop in somewhere and have decent contact with an attractive nude or minimally dressed woman. I just wish it were set up where you could pick the dancer(s) you want to spend time with ahead of time instead of sitting through crap music and watching a parade of dancers who are not that attractive to you and hoping the one(s) you are attracted to are not with regulars. Many times, actually the majority it, it ends up being not worth the drive or the money spent.
I'm also not really interested in "extras" at all except for kind of a GFE where we are almost making out. Some will even kiss and I realize that can be dangerous but it is a turn on. For me , this is more about just being close to a young woman who is attractive to me in an intimate way. I was very shy when younger so I missed out on that. Really not interested at all in getting off or what is usually offered as extras. This may be unrealistic as well because most of the younger, college aged, girl next door type dancers have been few and far between and the few I have been with were awkward, slightly uncomfortable or just not that great at dances.
discussion comment
6 years ago
In the past I have been to Cheerleaders, Club Risque on the Deleware, Delilahs and Oasis and Atlantic. Will give a brief rundown of each...
Cheerleaders- This seems to be the most consistent in quality and the one I keep returning to. I never had an amazing experience here but I have had consistently better experiences here
than anywhere else. Nice variety of attractive girls, easy to approach dancers to get a dance, nice layout. Couch room is nice and private.
Club Risque on Deleware- Nice layout. Lower quality Never really found a dancer I was attracted to. Usually leave disappointed or as if I've wasted my time
Delilahs- Overwhelming. I found a table to sit, it was pretty far from the stage, it was crowded. None of the dancers on the floor walking around made eye contact and seemed aloof. When I came
here I did not have much time to spend but despite the attractive dancers, the layout and the prospect of meeting a stripper for a LD seemed remote unless I spent time as a regular. Really don't
have any desire to return.
Oasis - Not many dancers when I went. I was also ripped off here and will NEVER return. AA Dancer charged me for extra dances. I didn't bother disputing it but will never be back. I really don't understand
the logic of this.... you might scam a few dollars out of someone but chances are you will NEVER see a dime from them, they will never return and they will likely tell others to avoid your club.
Atlantic- Almost all black women here. Stripper kissed me here though so I did not expect that. I didn't think that ever happened in strip clubs before then. Really no desire to return though as I like a mix
of different types of women.
I also went to that place in NJ , the Playhouse... maybe I went on a bad night.. I didn't see anyone all that attractive and just left.
The other options along 95 are Baltimore and Washington. I don't really have a desire to go the "Block" in Baltimore or really drive into Baltimore if it can be helped.
Washington DC, from the reviews... seems kinda lame
It's is sad that along a major highway down the east coast there are so few options.