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VH_Kicks, I don't know of any "extras" clubs in Minnesota. Sure, you might get extra mileage at one club over the other, but it's not like we're in Detroit. Ladies here are still pure as far as strippers go. jackslash, not likely. I may like clubbing but its not like I'd quite my job. WTF. Alucard, nope, I haven't been. And I know I'm a hypocrite for loving to go to the club and having a woman writhe all over me, but I don't want my GF doing it. Tell me how to talk her out of it! No, I don't want her showing her pussy to other dudes. I don't want her shoving her breasts in another guys face. What man would want that?

I'm not "cool" with it, no. But I've been not a great man, and she thinks she wants to try this. What do I do? Take a look at my profile pic - would you buy a dance from her? I would, but I know her. Like I said, maybe she'll suck at it, or the other strippers will all hate her.

deogol I asked for it because I like clubbing? Yeah...maybe. I don't know if I should support the decision if she decides to actually do it or try to talk her out of it. Maybe she'll suck at it anyway? No. Probably not.

What's the problem with that, exactly?

I didn't tell her Im on this site but I did ask her to be more patient with me. She brought up going to the club again and getting a couples dance so we'll see how that goes. She can do just enough at home i think to make me not want to go so much. She said she wants to see how I am. Is that a good thing? I think it might be a very bad thing.

I want to do right by this woman. She's done a lot (even before she knew how much I go, just that she knew I liked them) to try and recreate the club at home, buying shoes, little outfits, a 6 week exotic dance class. Thats how great she is. I don't want to fuck this up.

I've been reading and yeah, it doesn't look like this problem has come up on this site, or at least not recently. Is everyone here single? If not, how do you handle it with your GFs and wives?

randy77, I'll do that. Thanks. The seediness is a huge part of the allure for me. Bishop - but the pull of the club, man. I'm not sure I'll be able to stop. Ermita - yeah, I was a dumbass that night. Now I cant bring her with me though because I know I cant stop myself. I'll be honest here. I sort of expected someone to tell me I shouldn't have to change. That she should love me for who I am.