Jtmonger

Thanks everyone

Hmmmm just like the reviews ... Mixed on where to go !

In my opinion SD is so close to the border just stay there ! Unless you are feeling brave the hotels are rough and I would say not worth the risk.

So for the last couple of times I visited my favorite local club I have initiated a similar challenge but with a twist. A typical night the club will have 6-8 dancers and I will let the bartender know that I want to start a contest for the best lapdance each girl who wants to play gets 1 dance and the winner gets $200. It is always a good time and last time even the bartender joined in. I have had some great dances from the girls by making it into a game!

Be nice and simply ask her to go with you to the stage - "lets go tip the girl on stage" stand up and make sure she takes her drink,purse etc with her. Its going to cost you a couple of $ sit for a song giving clock blocking girl a few $ to tuck. Once song is over simply just say thank and you will look for her when she is up next on stage. I have found that this is a less awkward way to let her know to move on and not get the reputation as a complete ass. This is important if you plan on returning to the club.