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13 years ago
My deal is this, i've been to alot of clubs and have had many negatives from girls. From this customers point of view:
- after i've said i don't wanna private dance, do not ask me over & over again thinking i'm going to crack, same go's for asking for drinks. along those lines, usually when i do get a dance, ill just see what the girl doe's, if it's lame i'll just leave & she'll know by the look on my face that I didn't enjoy it so don't ask for another. Ok so your smokin hott but don't expect any guy to just jump up & pay $200 to $1000 for the VIP or Champagne room unless when you ask him your also showing him a selection of condoms or you have your hand down his pants...
- don't get angry & call me names or throw drinks in my face when I say no or leave the stage when you get on it, not every guy who comes in the club thinks your hott.
- already said but don't walk up to me and stick your boobs in my face & expect a tip, i'm not even a fan of boobs all that much, same for sitting in my lap when I didn't give any indications that I wanted you to.
- if I have a regular girl & you know that, don't come up to me unless I ask for you.
- don't blow your post cigarrette smoke infested breathe into my face & ears, you need to assume that all your customers are smoke free so after smoking please chew on some damn dentine.
- already said, no fish in the crotch damnit. this is your money maker, it needs to be in the best shape possible & smell like roses at all times. Japanese guys are the only ones i've ever heard of who enjoy the smell of rotten crotch, i don't bust my ass for 12 hours a day at work to come to the club & get a face full of catfish, wipe it after dances or at least once every hour if possible.
- don't judge me by my clothing, hell I may be rich for all you know.
- when i enter the club for the very 1st time, don't ask me if you know me, you don't trust me
- Strippers are some of the biggest liars in the customer service industry, even among their co-workers they usually never tell eachother what they REALLY did to make all those tips. so if a guy says the other girl did or said something different there's a pretty good chance he may be telling the truth.
- every club is different, don't get pissed at your customers just because your boss is giving you a raw deal, move to another club. There is always a demand for strippers.
I understand that going to a strip club is a voluntary action, not mandatory so you can't be too upset with bullshit service but damn it's a customer service job & the girls who do more to make customers happy are usually the ones that make the most dough, hell i've been to clubs where average & ugly girls made alot more than the hott ones. Just like sex, hot chicks figure they're hot & they're gonna get there's no matter what so why should they do anything other than just laying there with their legs open, average & ugly girls on the other hand usually go the extra mile. Take care of your regulars & treat new customers with some repsect if they haven't done anything for you to treat them otherwise & damnit I don't know any guy who intentionaly & knowingly pays to get lied to soo please don't come up to us with all your bullshit stories about how your life sucks & how handsome & or cute you think we are or whatever the hell. Sounds like this Daisy girl should be working at a peep show where she stands behind a glass with no speaker instead of dealing with live people, I think she could better handle that...
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13 years ago
Man i don't think i've ever been to a club that told me the prices at the door when i was walking in, it would be better because usually I ask how much & what they do & the girls always act like your an undercover cop when you do that, they won't say how much everything is or what all they do. Then your left having to ask others who've been there before. I hate it when a girl says "just pay for a private dance & you'll see when we get back there", bullshit. I have been approached before by black girls before other girls. The bartenders didn't send them over, they did it on their own prolly assuming since I'm black i'd like her but I didn't, told her no thanks. I love asian girls so thats usually what I go for when i'm in any strip club. I think the deal with white and black IMO & experience is that white guys usually drop alot of cash in the strip club, brothers don't. The girls know this & it's why they speak to the white guys mostly unless you have spoken to a particular girl & shown that you are willing to drop some ends in the club that's how it is. As far as dress codes, from what I've seen minorities are usually better dressed than white guys in the club. Latino & black dudes usually come in wearing ironed brand new looking name brand clothing while white guys will routinely show up with raggedy jeans, faded shirts and year old sneakers. Now there are a few that dress nice, but the latter is outnumbered by the prior for sure. Bottom line is this: unless your a celebrity or pro-sport player, skin color doesn't matter, your not gonna walk into any strip club and have all the girls & the manager kissin your butt on the first few visits. It isn't until after you've been to a club a few times & dropped a few bucks that you get good customer service. I usually pick out 1 or 2 girls & stick to talking to just them for the duration of however long i'm gonna be visiting that club. Once you've established that, when you come in, the other girls know not to speak to you, when the manager see's you he usually greets his regulars & then he sends your regulars or regular to sit with you if she's not already busy. Sometimes, the bartender will comp you drinks. Like I started off though, this is my experience...