Comments by RandomDancer

I've known a couple of clubs that had similar rules. One used to only allow women in if they were a couple (man/woman), or to inquire about employment. When I wanted to check the place out prior to working there without pressure from mgmt, I asked a guy friend to go with me (I had already heard thru the grapevine about the restrictions). The staff didn't say anything to me about the rule, but it was annoying to have to do that. When I worked there, I asked why that rule was in place and was told "We've had problems, and they (women) don't spend money." But that was several years ago, and from what I've heard recently it isn't that way anymore. To be completely honest, I've wished that certain women WOULDN'T come in: at some places where the minimum age is only 18, giggly little girls come in with groups of anywhere from 5-12 guys and girls. They take up lots of space by moving chairs/tables around, make stupid comments, ask inappropriate questions, laugh at dancers and dances going on, and spend no money. Sure, they might razz one person into getting A dance; a couple girls will usually come up to the stage for one or two dancers to tip a dollar each, snickering and whispering the whole time. When it's a place where dances are on the floor, it makes even some regular custies uncomfortable enough to NOT get dances while these children are present. Naturally, myself and other dancers do not appreciate it. THOSE are the sort of females I would rather not see in the club, but even then I wouldn't go so far as to deny them entry.

Oops. I guess because you called them "kids" I assumed they were just that... kids/minors. But then, my mom says anyone under 50 is a kid! In that case, if everyone is cool with it, have all the fun you want under the mistletoe!

I've worked at a few clubs that have had feature dancers, either regularly or sporadically. When they have the big-name pornstars in, the crowds show up. But for the lesser-known entertainers, generally the ones who don't do harcore porn, only that lady's followers usually show. Personally, I like to check out their shows and see what kind of moves they do, what outfits they have, etc etc. A few of the pornstars I met were even informative and helpful. :)

Unless you are actually developing a personal relationship or friendship with the stripper in question, I would advise not inviting her to be around your children. For just some alone time, though, go for it!

Hey chitownlawyer, Go ILLINI!!! Woohoo!

I can only guess that either: A) It is/was some sort of psychological issue with her that she was subconsciously avoiding sexual intercourse. There could be any number of reasons why. or B) She may have fainted directly after orgasm. This is not common, obviously, but it does happen. Just like some women squirt, and a few uncontrollably urinate, there are rare instances of women who lose consciousness.

It sounds goofy, but I make myself sing along with loud music. This time of year, I try to play funny Xmas tunes that make me laugh too. Also, keeping cold air blowing in the car keeps me from nodding off. Soda, energy drinks, coffee, etc. are all good for a quick boost before I get in the car but almost always lead to "let down" before I am anywhere near home.