discussion comment
11 years ago
This post takes me back...many years ago I worked for a company where a couple of my co-workers went to a club, and they struck up a conversation with a few dancers, and they mentioned they were looking for a receptionist. Well, one of the dancers took them up on it, and was hired. She was a nice and beautiful girl - I never went to the club, so I couldn't speak to whether she gave lap dances/extras (I think it was a no-touch club), but she performed her office duties as assigned as I remember.
I do remember that the boss complained that her writing skills stunk - and I'm thinking "well, it's not like we recruited her from Harvard or Yale..."
If you do help her get a job, try not to share that she's a dancer (may be career limiting for both of you - I don't judge, but others will), and make sure you don't catch crap for recommending her if it doesn't work out for her. It's cool to help a friend out, but be careful.
discussion comment
13 years ago
Ranukam - A little different take here...
If you've been with her for three months, and she hasn't been hitting you up for cash yet, that's a good sign she's not just using you. If she comes from an f-ed up family background and she's taking care of her younger sibs (who I assume you've met), she's not a typical dancer.
If you're serious about the relationship, proceed with caution, but don't judge her as many of the posts have judged her here...there's many lives at stake here, including some younger sibs. Don't come to tuscl.net for relationship advice.
At a minimum, stay friends with her...in the business she's in, she needs a true friend, especially someone near her own age. Take heed to the caution on the board...but don't lose a great relationship, friendship or more, based on the advice from the PhDs on this thread ;-)
Good luck.