discussion comment
15 years ago
Married guys--Why do you go to strip clubs?I love my wife, do have sex but much less often than I'd like. Truth is, the passion of the first few years ain't there no more. I get bored and she is unwilling to do anything different sexually. SC's gets my blood going, as long as I don't go too often or get too attached I think it's morally equivalent to jacking off to porno. She doesn't like it & I do conceal it after we had a big dust-up over clubbing. It is selfish of me, but otherwise I am good to her and I can live with the duplicity.
discussion comment
15 years ago
Look/Touch.........Tell me what you wantThe rush of exitement of being with a new, hot girl. Personally, not looking to get off (as in HJ, BJ) but like a lot of contact. It's hard to be happy with only looking once you've been able to touch! Our hard-ons and our wallets will tell you when you've hit the right note.
discussion comment
16 years ago
Some questions to customers from an ex dancerWhat is your outlook on dancers all together? Some are soul-less ho's. Some are real sweathearts. I like most of the ones I give money to.
What is your tipping style? Examples - Strict $1, what do you expect when you give a dancer a tip, etc..? Dollar or 2 at the stage, expect nothing then. Tip well for laps if like it.
What do you expect out of a lapdance and VIP rooms? I want to touch things, contact
Do you pay for talking time and/or do you offer to buy drinks or will you buy the dancer a drink if she asks? Or do you refuse under all circumstances to buy a dancer a drink? If she really wants to drink with me I'll buy, but never if it is part of the hustle (which is usually the case). Don't pay for talk.
Are you the type of customer that likes to approach dancers your self or vice-versa? If you only like certain dancers and one you don't like approaches you, how do you react to her? Like to be approached, if not interested give an excuse why not
What kind of club attracts you and do you ask dancers for extras? If you ask for extras, what is usually the percentage that agree to extras? Prefer a club that's a bit more like a bar, not too upscale or scummy. I never asked for extras. low end clubs it seems every girl offers them. High end many hint it is in the VIP