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13 years ago
My "limited" Stripper Dating Experience@OhioVoyeur,
Never can be sure, but often when OTC becomes "girlfriend" in your situation, this is because you're being upgraded to "Sugar Daddy". Expect an urgent financial crisis soon roughly equal to 5 "sessions" to keep the gravy flowing. Or so I hear.
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13 years ago
My "limited" Stripper Dating ExperienceHonestly, not sure what you're going for.
These girls are available for a fee otc, the things they said and did made that pretty clear. It's that simple. The stories are just to provide a cover story for legal reasons or so you feel better about it but everybody is supposed to quietly understand the real deal.
In each of these cases I'm sure they feel that they invested their time (some more some less) because you indicated you were interested in being a customer (however veiled and finessed mainly for cultural/legal reasons) but that you didn't hold up your end. They are pretty much right.
Whatever floats your boat - seriously I'm not trying to insult you or anything - but that's what's going on here and it sounds like you know it and are just jacking with them for free kicks.
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14 years ago
Strip Club Laws across the USAWho says American "liberals" can't be Fascist (assuming the term was used colloquially). Conservatives inappropriately infringe on our freedoms because they think sexuality and nudity is evil. Liberals inappropriately infringe on our freedoms because they think strip clubs exploit poor powerless women. They are both wrong in their reasons in my opinion and unamerican in their overreaching disrespect for freedom. But they are equally bad as in most other facets of governance.
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14 years ago
Strip Clubs Owners, It's time to "Get It"...or maybe I mostly agree.
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14 years ago
Strip Clubs Owners, It's time to "Get It"I mostly disagree with all of this stuff. In my experience facilities, drink prices, management attitude on the rare occasions you interact with the (the rarer the better) and even wait service all add up to about 10% of what matters unless unless astoundingly bad.
Most management seem to focus on these things too much, apparantly confused thinking they are running a regular bar, and those are the clubs that seem to struggle. i don't ever pick a strip club because I can get a $1 beer.
What matters is the girls, the girls and the girls. Management should be "dancer-friendly" focusing on recruiting and satisfying the girls. The club that wins is the one that attracts the best dancers.
They should make their money off the drinks, not by nickle and diming the girls. They should give the girls as much latitude as imaginably possible in setting their own hours. Dancers should feel secure. They should have a nice dressing room. They should get perks like food.
On the floor Management should remain as distant and unobtrusive as possible at all times, to the maximum extent that will not land them in legal trouble they should avoid policing and intervening in dances making the firls feel like they can get in trouble easily.
The only exceptions worth making are that management must enforce "special" dance prices if they choose to offer them and watch out for hustlers trying to overchange customers. These exceptions apply because they are also about dance quality/value from the customer perspective.
This is how I see strip clubs become known as the best place in town. Not leather and chrome or cheap drinks.
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14 years ago
The Las Vegas Strip Club: Why Do We Love Them?Vegas clubs are NOT the best.
Generally you get the hottest girls, solid mileage, terrible value.
So I go.
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14 years ago
BBBJ and HJ STD RisksCuriousgeorge,
I think you have an agenda. Christian organization? I have noticed while researching stds that nothing skews the internet results like christian organizations that want to try to make it seems like anything sexual results in immediate hospitalization.
You're not going to get an std from a handjob. You can construct some theoretical arguments for how it is possible, but in fact there are no confirmed cases, ever, in all of medical history.
The reason you don't get HIV from a BJ is that HPV is a VERY delicate virus, and saliva is a digestive fluid. Unless she has a mouthful of bleeding sores, you're fine. There are some things you can catch like chlamydia (bacterial, so antibiotics fix it), but it is a relatively safe activity and NOT a meaningful AIDS risk.
HPV is warts. Not genital warts, all warts of every kind that every human being gets are caused by some variation of the HPV virus. A dick wart is not very different from a hand wart or a face wart. In some vanishingly small percentage of cases any wart can be cancerous and in a woman's cervix the risk is higher than in any other case, but in general, we humans don't freak out about warts, we freeze them off. This goes for women too.
Please stop trying to freak people out.
Bottom line.
A hand job is no more medically dangerous than a hand shake.
A blow job has a moderate risk of std, but not the scary ones.