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2 wks ago · 1 min read
Do you find that it’s better to ask for extras or hope to get some as freebies? I’m talking about small extras like extra touching, kissing, sucking… my bf and I go together and love to have fun with strippers but we’re new to this. If asking, when and how is best to ask?
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Apparently I’m somewhat “hardcore” AND I club in Florida,,,, but I don’t consider any of those extras!
Welcome. You can try going to known extras clubs and taking advantage of the transactional nature of those clubs. If you’re going to try a less extras-y club., I’d suggest going during dayshift or weeknight early in the week so that you can have 1 on 1 time with a dancer and have a conversation out on the floor over a drink or two, or I guess 2 on 1 in this case. That’s a better place to find out if she’s into both boys and girls and into you. If a dancer is interested, it’s a pretty easy conversation from there once you get comfortable talking about turn ons. Since you’re new at it, just steer the conversation to ask what she’s into and what turns her on, ask if she’s into women and then to whether she’d like a vip. Try a couple lap dances first if they are available and you want to test it out. You’ll make some mistakes but it’s part of the learning process.
Like someone else stated, try out a day shift, either weekday or Saturday afternoon possibly. Also, try another club besides Bare Elegance. Maybe Jet Strip, or City of Industry clubs like Spearmint Rhino or Synn.
As a couple, one of you has to hit it off with the dancer first. Go for rapport and then ‘extras’ in your mind will rise….
The few times I've gone with women, the strippers made it fun, same as they do when I go alone. There was no "fuck my bills, I get to liz out!" reaction. Usual boundaries. I wasn't expecting any couples discount, and none was offered. I've never encountered a stripper born in the US who was homophobic. But it can be an issue with Cuban immigrant strippers.
@candixoxoxo
Do you let ghem lick your pussy or blow your boyfriend?
I wish my wife was into this.
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