Hey what's going on everyone! I am fairly new to tuscl. Looking to make some friends with people that also go to strip clubs frequently and to talk about girls, our dances, share stuff. I am in the Los Angeles area and SF Valley. Send me a message here if you would like to chat and make a bud. I've tried connecting with people before here or on other strip club forums on reddit but it doesn't last. People will talk alot the first day or week then just vanish and stop replying. I'm looking for some one for real who actually responds and is interested and engages, talks all the time messages alot. Just want a real homie to go to clubs with get girls together etc. Send me a message.
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It doesn't make sense for me to go to strip clubs with a friend, because I go to get lap dances. I avoid clubs where I have to spend a lot of time waiting for a dancer I like to be available to do a lap dance. (I don't live anywhere near California, in any case.) There are many strip club customers who go to hang with friends as much or more than to spend time (and money) with strippers. But that type of customer probably only reads reviews at most on this website, not discussions.
Men go to strip clubs alone. Women go to (male) strip clubs in groups. We are different animals.
Imma give you some lion-y advice @Dominantbadass7 ape: nobody wants to hang with somebody that calls themselves a dominant badass.
And you should also be careful regarding the homosexual subtext of anything you post. We ricks don’t worry about that shit because we have no subtext. We’re all text. And Jack. That’s right, we ricks jack to the text….wait…I think that may have some homosexual subtext.
Anyhoo…my rickvice is to change your name to “I’ll pay for your lap dances”. Lot’s of folks will wanna hang with you then. ROAR!!!
@rickthelion Maybe he should be rickthelemming. They'll jump off a cliff to stick with their buds.
@rickthelion some rickly good advice given there. How does the council of ricks convene without giving off the homophobic vibe? Is it concealed by meeting and conferring on consuming Jack Daniel’s leading to corrupt activities. The Rick’s thrive as lone wolves.
I think that OPs request is genuine, and that he’s looking for a few like minded buds to hang and gab with. Nothing wrong with that. But for me, strip clubbing is a solo activity, and something that I’m only comfortable discussing anonymously.
@Iknowbetter +1. I'd feel extra creepy, being all Siskel and Ebert about somebody's tits.
I think this guy just wants to steal kidneys and is using the strip club angle to lure some PLs in. Listen buddy there’s a perfectly good set of kidneys hanging out in the San Jose Public Library right now up for grabs.
OP should consider messaging cjkunt band who is definitely looking to hook up with other guys and happens to live in the same area. A match made in something that doesn't include heaven.
I found that going to a strip club with a friend or even talking about the girls with a friend causes more problems than any possible benefit. It's not the same as going to a game with a friend where you are sharing the same experience.
It's a well established fact that at a strip club YMMV. That's just the way it is. You go to a club and had a great time. Your friend goes and his experience sucks. You think dancer "A" at the club gives terrible dances. Your friend had a dance with her and experienced a lap dance king. You think dancer "B" is hot and got several lap dances. He thinks the club has much hotter girls and wouldn't waste his time with dancer "B".
Strip clubs are definitely a solo experience.
Unless I'm losing my mind (which is entirely possible), did founder himself once throw out the offer of perhaps meeting up at a club in Vegas, or was that someone else???
Anyway, here's my take on this...
I don't think there's anything at all wrong with asking, but if two or more people are going to meet up at a club, it's probably going to be helpful if they're looking to meet up for the same reason(s). I typically prefer going to clubs alone, because my mission is to find a really cute dancer, connect with her, and hopefully do a shitload of dances while I'm at it. That's the main reason that I go to clubs, and I can't fully concentrate on that task if I've got a friend or a "wingman" that I'm also having to pay attention to. It's also pretty unlikely that I'd ever share any real details about my dances, even with my closest friends. And finally, some experiences can't simply be duplicated, because having that experience with a particular dancer would require having a genuine human connection with her. No connection...no dice...regardless of how much money you have...
Now...would I ever consider meeting up with another TUSCLer at a club just to shoot the breeze about life in general, or maybe to connect a face with a username...yeah, I'd be willing to at least consider that scenario. But he'd need to be fully aware that if my dream girl suddenly walks by in a really skimpy outfit, I'll likely be abandoning his ass in a fraction of a second to go talk to her! 😂
@ClubFan81077 - re: "... if my dream girl suddenly walks by in a really skimpy outfit, I'll likely be abandoning his ass"
Yes, knowledgeable PLs know that it's "Hos before bros" in the SC. When an opportunity present herself, the conversation can wait while off making time and memories. Then, simply pick up where you both left off.
A cautionary take from another local (he had one of his "friends" try to spoil his sugar thing) has me kind of avoiding bothering with others in the club. There's a few guys I'm acquainted with just because we've all been going to the same clubs for 20 years or more, and Louisville is a pretty small place, comparatively speaking. But it's "Hey Jake" in passing kind of acquaintance, not "how're the wife and kids" one.
@georgmicrodong You could maybe make some ciberfriends by writing a new review or two.
@ilbbaicnl, I've thought about it, but things really haven't changed all that much in the last few years here. I might anyway; I guess an update for "same as last year" has some value.
PL who go to SC in groups need to go away imho
Where I live in northwest Arizona was somewhat convenient to meet founder up in Vegas when he put that invite out. We met at Hooters casino and went to a couple of smaller strip clubs. It was fun hanging with him.
I usually do hang with a couple of other guys to hit the coffee shops in the OC. And also meet friends down in Hong Kong. And sometimes I go solo. I'm not consistent.
But if I do see a hottie that I wanna dance with, I don't let my acquaintances get in the way.
I think fellow PLs can add a fun dimension to the club experience. I normally go solo, but occasionally enjoy shooting the breeze, sharing stories, and swapping tips in an open way with someone in the know, which I'd never get in any other context.
Having said that, I've met PLs before who don't seem too interested. So, best not to press it and move on.
99% of the time clubbing has been a solo activity for me. The other 1% it's been to have a buddy to kill time or talk about the girls between dances. But at a place like Atlanta with $5/$10 dances at your seat, that's almost never.
@ThePuddyTat ... those prices are very unusual in my experience, but I've never clubed in Atlanta.
On a serious note I have 2 close friends that love clubs probably more than me. On the rare occasions we all go out to a club(s) together we all have a great time. We are all trying to enhance each others evenings by buying each other lapdances and drinks.
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