I must admit this was a first for me, and I'm not sure how I should have reacted. I've been going to clubs for a looooong time, too long, and I've had lots of dances, most forgettable. Then this happened.
I had a nice young lady in the lap dance area of my local club. She seemed very willing to please, for a buck, and I asked her if a couple 20s would gain me a little more access. She agreed and wanted the money on the spot. Ok, I guess. Kinda distracting but I gave her $40 and she then told me "a couple is usually 3 of 4". I disagreed and she kinda gave me the access I wanted. Limited time and not really what I paid for, but whatever, close enough. On with the show.
Then, about 3/4 of the way through our time, she reached back and took my wallet out of my pocket! She started to reach for it with her other hand and I got a little angry with her and got it back without too much fuss, but it pissed me off, and totally distracted me. Ruined the rest of our time really.
I'm not thinking the dancers aren't into it for the money, but I think that was too far. Should have walked out. Complaining wouldn't have done any good, as it would have been he said/she said. What do you think?
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I’d have ended the dance right there and gone straight to the manager.
Yeah, customers and dancers often bend or break many club rules, not to mention local ordinances. But there are two ironclad, inviolable rules in the strip club:
The customer never touches money in the dancer’s garter, much less anywhere else in her possession.
The dancer never touches the customer’s wallet, or even money in his shirt pocket or in a pile in front of him on the bar.
Yaaaa, what he said ^^
Whew. When you said "too aggressive," I was thinking something else entirely -- I.e., assault -- but this... Yeah, should've just grabbed your wallet back, said, "We're done," then gotten up (whether she was still on your lap or not), headed to management, then left.
If the management keeps hearing the same girl is doing that, they should do something. Bad for business.
Why aren't you telling us which dancer in what club?
Besides saving money and avoiding DUIs, another reason to get drunk at home is that people are less likely to try shit on you.
Many yrs ago I was at a club in pasco county FL and had just finished a private dance with a girl I didn’t know there. When I club I keep cash in my pockets and don’t bother with a wallet or ID. Apparently this dancer had paid attn. to which pockets I had the largest currency in; as we’re walking out of the private area suddenly I feel fingers entering my pocket as we’re slowly making our way out of that area. I guess she decided our agreed price was no longer adequate (I had already paid her). As soon as I felt her fingers in there I roughly removed her hand/fingers from my pocket and gave her a wtf look as she attempted to feign innocence? She did not get any of my cash and I believe she may have injured her finger(s) in the process!
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