Lessons Learned - Good, Bad, Indifferent

I've been strip clubbing now for about 10 years and have had my experiences. Recently I was reminiscing on how I would frequent the nude club when I first started going to strip clubs; I was about 30 years old then. And my visits at the time were 3 to 4 times a month. Well, one night and less than a dozen visits in, I thought I vibed great with a dancer. I asked for her number, but she gave me some reason why I should give her mine and how I had to give it to the bartender on paper to give to her! I did so as I left the club which I ended up briefly arguing with the bartender because I insisted it was a dancer named XYZ that wanted my number. So for the next three or four days I anxiously answered all unknown call/numbers (I was getting alot of spam) that came through because I thought it was her! Sadly, she never called.

It wasn't funny then, because I genuinely thought she liked me. But looking back on it after many experiences of getting strippers phone numbers or giving mine, I laugh at myself. What are some good, bad, or indifferent lessons you have learned strip clubbing.