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Would dancers accept cashapp or Venmo in vip?

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Tycho_2VIP

2 wks ago · 1 min read

Just a general question, would dancers accept cashapp or Venmo for any extras in vip / cr rooms? I suppose not since they’re not carrying their phones with them so I guess it’s a moot question but asking the forum here for their experiences say in Wisconsin, Illinois, Indiana, Michigan

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rockie

Some dancers offer that service to so me of their regulars.

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nicespice

If a club accepts credit cards, then there’s a good chance that won’t be allowed. The club would rather have you pay through their funny money system and get their cut.

Otherwise, a dancer would probably accept it. I personally don’t like it, because twice that happened a customer would want to request a refund after an hour later. And I only used it for like $100 in dances. I was grateful that I could redeem those payments quickly and ignore those requests. But I definitely wouldn’t want to make it a habit. And any customer who brings up using those apps to me, I view as a potential pain in the rear because of my experience with them.

If for some reason you do tip with one of those apps, then please label it with something nondescript and not clearly stating that indicates you are doing payment for sex work services. Even if said sex work services was something as mild as feet pictures.

But if you know what you want, then I recommend to have good pockets (cargo pants?) and just bring cash when you go out. And have it be separate from your main wallet or something.

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funonthaside

Are you kidding me????? Apparently haven't been to a strip club; otherwise, you would understand that the girls arr generally glued to their phones.

The naive/stupid ones may accept Venmo, but any dancer with a brain will only accept cash (or maybe a credit card payment made to club). I have heard from more than one dancer about Venmo acams that guts pulled on them...they show a Venmo transaction, but don't actually hit submit. The smart ones will first confirm receipt of funds, but some aren't that smart. The truly smart ones will insist on cash, and you should, too, as it is much simpler and faster.

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Baristafan

I have many times

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ilbbaicnl

There are lots of Allpoint ATMs, and I've never had to pay a fee at one: allpointnetwork.com . They may have a limit of $400 or less. But you can do multiple withdrawals, up to your bank's limit. And they've always given me 20s, which are less likely to be fake than 100s, and are easier for her to spend. If you're a regular, they are more likely to take the risk of an electronic payment that you can try to claw back.
One of my favs also cammed. She wanted to be able to take PayPal, but they have a no adult businesses rule. So she set up an account for pole dance lessons, and had the PLs pretend to sign up for pole dance lessons. But PayPal froze her account anyway. She eventually got the money, but it took months. She also got a merchant account for one or more credit card payment processors.

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59

I have many times but only with long time faves where trust has been built. Venmo.

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MrSuntan

I've had dancers tell me they accept tips through venmo, apple pay, etc. Most just want cash, and that's all I've ever used.

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BASP

CashApp and Venmo can reveal details about your identity. It also sets up a precedent where you might get sob story requests for money later down the line. Not smart to use that with such unsavory people. Use cash instead.

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shailynn

Nicespice will you accept payment in the form of chackin fangers?

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PAWG_Patrol

My friend's first visit to a club he CashApp'd a dancer $500. To this day we still make fun of him. All he got were some regular dances in VIP.

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ilbbaicnl

Texas girls want barbecued brisket.

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ilbbaicnl

Unless she's Talarico's girlfriend.

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rickthehick

I believe with Zelle, it exposes their real full name, unless they have a business/LLC of some sort then they can have you zelle that.

I believe cashapp and venmo have more privacy and you can set them up under any name you choose to. I think if a dancer would take venmo it would need to be sent to them via friends and family, otherwise if its goods and services then the guy could easily dispute it later on and get the money back

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ilbbaicnl

Speaking of Texas, when I was there for a spell, I'd drive into Houston on Saturdays to go to Chicas Locas. I could only make it to an ATM right before the club, so I'd only have $600. I'd spend it on my Cuban fav, but then she'd sit with me till it had to leave. So I'd cashapp her a good tip. The first time she declined it, cause she assumed it was a scam. But yeah, that lead to the my brakes go bad and me no have money scam. No good deed goes unpunished.

Not many people are carrying around $500+ in cash, and it’s also a way to avoid the ATM fee these clubs charge. I see no issue with it, unless you don’t want her to know your real name. I don’t give a fuck.

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elmer

I've used electronic payments with my atf and cf quite often with no issues. The downside is it can be easy to overtip

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RTP

A dancer at the club I frequent got scammed with Venmo. A dancer told me The guy insisted on paying her Venmo. I have Venmo so I know how a transaction works and what the emails look like. The dancer received a text or email that the money was sent, but no $ ever appeared in her account. Not sure how it worked, but I am sure she won’t take Venmo again.

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shadowcat

It really just comes down to trust. A dancer that I was seeing regularly OTC needed a small amount of cash to hold her over until our next meeting. She gave me her checking account number and it was real easy to transfer the funds as we both use the same credit union.

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Iknowbetter

OTC for sure, maybe ITC. But doesn’t that create a record of the transaction?

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Alternative_carry657

I learned not to reject a dancer with "I dont have enough cash" because a few of them quickly offered up their cash app instead. Some even offered a discount, which I'm assuming was because they weren't reporting the money as taxable income

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Alternative_carry657

Only take cash, only spend what you bring. Dont want ATM fees or a transaction record on an app

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Tycho_2

Yes an important distinction has to be made between convenience and confidentiality. For sure, avoiding anything of a digital trail should be a no-go, absolutely, especially for the married fellas. Convenience aside, you can add layers of identity protection using google voice, if for whatever reason one has contact with a dancer otc or to see when she’ll be working once you’ve established some sort of rapport with them. For digital pay methods one can enter a different name on the Venmo or Cashapp although the transaction can be visible on the bank statement that’s linked to the app. Only an issue if you don’t have a business where you can say you’re paying for marketing or cleaning services of an office. But recognize that some ladies use a very explicit tag on their cashapp or Venmo which won’t help the discretion angle. As a solid rule, do not use PayPal, do not use Zelle as those use your real name. With all this, I agree that cash is the best policy.

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boomer79

I’ve definitely used it with regulars. However you may be getting cash app requests afterwards. Usually it’s for extras when I’ve already blown my budget (the cash I brought with me) and I start thinking with my dick.

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blahblahblah23

Yeah most girls don't wanna take cashapp,venmo,paypal. One there's scams. Two this is a good way to get banned for life from these things for the girl. 3 cash is always king.

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