Sometimes, at a non-extras club, instead of just sitting there during a lap dance I want to change things up a little. One thing I'll do, with an amenable dancer, is ask if we can do a little standing doggy dry humping with her hands on the wall. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Sometimes the dancer seems to enjoy not having to direct the action for a little while. Recently there was a yes, but after about 15 seconds she stopped it and said, "Doggy style is disrespectful". Certainly it's her choice, no gripe there. But this is a viewpoint I hadn't heard before so I'm curious, is it a common opinion?
(Yes, I watch too much porn. Don't we all?)
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it's only disrespectful if she doesn't find you to be her type.
Yeah I really like this too if I can swing it with a girl. Some clubs won't allow it and if the girl doesn't know you might not be comfortable with if it's a green light I'm going.
Probably it was the first time anyone asked for that. She tried it, and it made her uncomfortable in some way. Maybe you were barking and panting a bit too loud.
^^ LOL
"Recently there was a yes, but after about 15 seconds she stopped it and said, 'Doggy style is disrespectful'. Certainly it's her choice, no gripe there. But this is a viewpoint I hadn't heard before so I'm curious, is it a common opinion?"
It's possible she wasn't completely ready or something about how it felt hurt. Or maybe she did field weird about getting spotted doing something that I obviously wasn't close to a lapdance. It's why a lot of girls won't give head ITC.
She might've just said what she said to get you to stop. Wouldn't put too much thought into it.
Not directly on point, but during FS, doggy is the go to for a lot of dancers and other SWers. It's a little less personal than face to face, and, if they're into the sex, there's better penetration. So not disrespectful at all
They naturally worry about ambush anal, although that's probably not relevant when it's dry hump doggy.
Lol. I didn't even realize the OP was just talking about stuff with clothes on. I see I gave that dude way to much credit.
So it's basically a standing grind. Some people would call that a wall dance, but usually that's the guy standing against the wall and the dancer pressing her ass into him. I've seen guys grab arms or shoulders and start thrusting into the dancer (not lately, but back when clubs were way better lol) so I guess having the girl lean towards the wall is kinda the same.
Who cares what she thinks? She doesn't need to do it, and you don't need to get dances with her. It's disrespectful of her to expect you to pay her while she lecfures you and whines. Wives exist for those last 2 activities. Strippers exist to fill our carnal desires not achieved in our non-SC lives.
A lot of my VIP experiences involve a lot of dry humping, in all kinds of positions. I’ve never had a dancer object to dry doggie
For what it’s worth, what OP describes is the free samples offered up at some of the south Florida clubs where I’ll be standing there minding my own business when a stripper approaches, turns around, and starts grinding her ass into my crotch. Then sometimes they’ll reach around and take my hands and put them on her tits to get the full preview experience. This is often as good or better than the paid lap dance.
I'm beginning to see why people retire to south Florida.
She might've started picturing dogs doing it and felt like she was being equated with/treated like a dog, even with how common the term is.
A lot of dancers prefer not to make eye contact during dances so they like it
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