Sometimes, at a non-extras club, instead of just sitting there during a lap dance I want to change things up a little. One thing I'll do, with an amenable dancer, is ask if we can do a little standing doggy dry humping with her hands on the wall. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Sometimes the dancer seems to enjoy not having to direct the action for a little while. Recently there was a yes, but after about 15 seconds she stopped it and said, "Doggy style is disrespectful". Certainly it's her choice, no gripe there. But this is a viewpoint I hadn't heard before so I'm curious, is it a common opinion?
(Yes, I watch too much porn. Don't we all?)
it's only disrespectful if she doesn't find you to be her type.