Drawing a Line on Quality

Maybe it is the romantic in me, go for it.

Unfortunately for me I'm lowering my standards but even more unfortunate is the fact that most of the dancers I see/meet are still below my line so I just move on to try another time.

My quality line has gone up quite a bit. My first ATF, my ultimate ATF, my current sugar baby, and a few others have spoiled me.

Yeah I've definitely gotten pickier over the years. I just need more to get that high now.

I had my testosterone checked 2 months ago and it was on the low side of normal. So it must be the quality of the strippers that have been available to me lately. Yesterday I passed on free use of a VIP room because I didn't see any dancers that appealed to me.

Typically I enjoy a higher quality of dancer if I can, but I also adjust accordingly depending on which area im in.

Im located in california primarily and will usually prefer to stay at or above my quality line.

However depending on pricing, I will lower it if I feel its worth the squeeze.

I’m more picky than ever. Looks are nice but personality and sexiness Count the most. I guess I want it all.

Well, it was more expensive than I usually do, but less expensive than I was expecting for a lot more time than I'd planned on. I probably offered her more than she was expecting lol, but it was a fair deal and I think it's happening again.

My quality line has remained unchanged. It is the bar for women to access pole dancing that has been lowered.

"Yesterday I passed on free use of a VIP room because I didn't see any dancers that appealed to me."

I get that. The other day I was bored and went to the club and banged two dancers back to back. And the sex was good. I'd had them both before and they know what they're doing. But I've just decided that I need to stop wasting time on more of the same.

If getting with the next dancer isn't an event I'm just not going to bother. I'm back on the hamster wheel with a very hot dancer who is lights out ITC but hesitant on OTC. So now I just go in about once a week and give her some dick while waiting for her to come around lol.

@wallanon theres likely a whole lot of guys “giving her some dick” whether ITC or OTC

'@wallanon theres likely a whole lot of guys “giving her some dick” whether ITC or OTC'

How dare you? She told me I was special...

@wallanon you can call me a shitbag or dirtbag all you want, on that other thread, but you literally are posting on here claiming to be a middle aged guy, whilst also attempting to convince people that almost every dancer youve gotten extras or OTC with, charged you lower rates than what she charged other guys.

And when you say lower rates you werent talking slightly lower, you were claiming significantly lower.

So yeah, even if you werent middle aged, that is an extremely big claim to make- the other thing is when you post some variant of that claim over the course of many years, it makes it seem like youre just chasing validation from anonymous internet people.

You can discuss extras, strip clubs, sex workers, etc, but if you spend years writing posts about how you get the best deals, or everyone charges you lower rates than anyone else, it is just a bit unusual like your trying to get ego strokes

I have a floor for what I will accept when it comes to stripper quality but it has not changed much. What has changed is an increasing desire to try other things. I feel like life is better when you have a variety of enjoyable activities to engage in. At my peak of strip club activity I was going twice a week. Probably not one guy in a hundred has that level of interest in strip clubs. I think I just got burned out on it from doing it too much. Now I spend two thirds of weekends doing something else.

I moved up the bar higher and younger yesterday. Bad experiences are way more annoying (I’m being kind with vocabulary) when it’s from an non-attractive dancer.

@sfrsox See that's where I break with everything. Looks won't salvage a bad experience for me. That's why I'm a talker and like a place where we can have a drink for a bit. I'm seasoned enough to be able to feel out with pretty solid accuracy whether or not we're getting a good time or it's going to feel like I'm getting a check up. When I call it wrong I'm completely soured and good looks ain't salvaging shit for me.

I think I'm going to hold the line and just try and clean up my lineup. There's this blazing hot dancer (with some plastic magic there but it's well done) who I thought was going to be a forever project, but I think I broke through the other day. Pretty much a total surrender. Now I'm not sure I still want her since she folded lol, but I guess I should since nobody will ever be able to get her if I don't go through with it...