Something I've noticed more of recently is dancers coming up to me to introduce themselves, but then not asking for a dance. Something like, "I'm Lola, just wanted to come over and say hi.." and they maybe share a few minor tidbits of information and then they leave. Okay... I guess you don't want to sell a dance? Maybe they're waiting for me to ask them? Sick of rejection, perhaps? I'm a horrible conversationalist so maybe it's me. Anyone else experience this type of thing lately, or ever?
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Dancers introducing themselves but not asking for a dance.
Feb 22, 2026, 9:01 AM
I have had strippers, after I got to know them, tell me they are reluctant to initiate requests for lap dances for fear of being rejected. At the same time, some guys feel the same way. I used to be a little bit like this but I now understand there are always some girls at the strip club wanting to make money, even if it means doing lap dances with an older customer like me. If a stripper introduces herself to me and I find her attractive I will ask her for lap dances and she will usually agree. If I ask a girl up on stage or walking around for lap dances and she is either not interested or too busy she will say she will come to my table later and then not show up. I never sit and wait too long for a stripper. I pick another one or leave.