I was recently in Clearwater FL on vacation. At the pool there was a 65 yo guy and a 22 yo girl ( ages are estimates) that were heavy sexual flirting. So it wasn't Father / Daughter or Grand Father / Grand Daughter. He was an old fart but didn't look too bad, she was a 10, wearing a tiny thong, a few tats, and several piercing. She looked like she could have been a top stripper in any of the Las Vegas Clubs. So this was either a Sugar Daddy relationship or a take your favorite stripper on vacation type situation. I think it was a Sugar Daddy. So my question is.... if you go down the Sugar Daddy trail, how much money per year do you need to spend to keep your girl happy? I know it varies, but I'm going for typical, ballpark, actual experience, etc. Thanks guys.
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I knew someone whose former co-worker had quit and gone to work as a personal assistant to a very wealthy man. Apparently, it was routine for attractive women, much younger than the rich guy, to hook up with him, on a nominally civee basis. I assume the idea was, the women figured there was some chance they could get him whipped. Their bet was something they could exchange for 3-5 figures, and I'd guess they saw a potential payout of 6-7 figures. And a lot of them would never get the 3-5 figures, because many see golddigging as not being, and more acceptable than FS sex work.
One of my favs had been the sb of a guy whose wealth was 8-9 figures. I would guesstimate her stipend was $70-80K, back around 2010. She ended up being a corporate toady, just like me. I look at her Linkedin profile from time to time.
I guess it depends on the woman, and what you're getting from the relationship. I'm not in the stratosphere, but my SB is giving me bareback cim and cip, plus the occasional overnight, and often a home cooked meal. I would guess about 20K a year.
Back in the 90s, there was an escort I saw about once a month. She was in her mid 30s, 4 kids, well-done C-cup implants, good muscle tone. Maybe I'm easy to please, but she pegged the needle on the hot-o-meter for me. Her asking was $180/hour, but I gave her $300, which was medium high at that time in that market. Apparently she saw that as a very good tip, so she stopped running the clock on me. So kinda like a sugar baby. According to the BLS CPI calculator, $300 adjusts to about $650 now. So, at once a week, about $33K per year. With clear possibilities of haggling the number down. (It doesn't seem like what sex workers make has kept up with inflation.) She told me she had another customer who offered to take her and her kids on vacation in his RV. She didn't take him up on it, but it seemed like the offer had some appeal to her.
“It doesn't seem like what sex workers make has kept up with inflation.”
I’m guessing part of that is there are a lot more women in the game today than years ago. Being a sugarbaby used to be very taboo, one could almost argue it’s acceptable these days seeing how many flaunt it on social media.
@georgmicrodong - Curious if you secured your SB from one of the typical sites, like Seeking.com? Or possibly a stripper/OTC who evolved into the role?
Yeah, George. She sounds pretty good if she’s an hottie and I would think reasonable price especially if you’re hitting it four/ five a times a month.
There is no set limit to make a girl happy, that whole idea is crap. Offer what you can afford and you'll find someone who will take it. Be careful on all the sites, don't send money up front, meet in public and vet and you'll be fine if your a decent guy.
Location is a factor. I've had 8 sugar babies over the last 15 years, I'm trying to figure out how I want to have one in GA where I retired too. 8K a month cash plus dates, trips, emergencies, and gifts were what I offered in NYC. I saw my SBs 10-20 times out of the month.
Even at these rates, renting is much cheaper than buying. Not to mention you get to trade up when you get tired of the current model.
@Rod84, I met her at a club a couple years after my ATF was killed. She quit the club, and we just kinda kept it going.
At 10-20 times per month, us old guys would have to throw in the cost of goat glands.
@Iknowbetter You can trade in sugaring too, its not like there's a contract
@ilbbaicnl Its not like we had sex everytime I didn't sugar women I couldn't talk to. That's why I never sugared a dancer at least in Florida I tried and as soon as the lights came on most of them where just bitchy and pushy
Yeah, renting is much cheaper than marriage. At least it is for me.
Paraphrasing an old saying: "If it floats or fucks, rent it."
Or flies
“If it flies, floats or fucks, rent it, don’t buy it,” said the character Tommy Earl Bruner in Dan Jenkins’ novel, Baja Oklahoma (1981).
Felix Dennis — ‘If it flies, floats or fornicates, always rent it. It's cheaper in the long run.’
Girl like you describe? For exclusive access I’m betting a minimum of $10k a month plus access to a credit card for shopping and upkeep. Would not be surprised if an apartment and/or car lease was in there somewhere too.
I know guys personally that have bankrolled strippers or sugar babies for similar amounts. Seemed like the girls were always all drama but most of the guys loved it. It seems like the more complicated the relationship is the more a lot of guys love it.