Stripper said no to giving her number, what is next?

keep seeing her if you enjoy her dances. This doesn't prevent you from finding someone else that will say yes. The "no" may only mean "not now" and may be a yes down the road.

Only rickdugan can tell you what you need to do so your rick card doesn't get cancelled. Why do you want her number?

If a dancer isn't comfortable giving her number out, my follow up is asking for her Instagram and getting that instead. Still a direct line of communication, at least.

Depends on why you want her number.

For dancers who don't want to get calls from or DM with customers, we could ask them to make a profile on TUSCL. They could update their profile to let us know when they are working.

“Why do you want her number?”

He’s looking for a babysitter for when he has date night with his wife.

For the OP - how many times have you seen her inside the club? Some dancers like to string you along so you’ll keep coming back asking for her number, like getting all the milk out of the cow so to speak.

I’ve found that in a round about way you eventually ask a stripper in the most eloquent way possible, “hey I’d like to meet you outside of the club so we can fuck, and I’ll pay you for it.”

Most girls either give one of two answers. “That sounds great,” or “ewww gross.” Then there’s the ones that don’t give an answer because they know if they so “no” you’ll lose interest, therefore they string you along. In most cases these girls don’t wake up and say hey “I need $xxx I think I’ll find that PL who keeps bugging my for my number and go fuck his brains out for $xxx today. Sole of them actually do that, but most do not.

OTC isn't the only reason to get a dancer's number. I've gotten a dancer's number just to know when she would be in the club because it was a long drive. This for a dancer who wasn't giving me extras.

My ATF said she’d babysit the kids if I ever needed her to. How would I explain that? Lol

If you want LDs with her whenever you happen to be in the club when she is, why “cut her off”. I wouldn’t bring up the phone # again unless she does. Same thing if you have visions of OTC. Never say never, but you may be barking up the wrong tree

As others have said, sometimes they are fine with their stripper Instagram or even an email address.

Wait outside the club and follow her home. Duh!

She will love that

Depends on what experience you're going for. I tend to like to find one CF and stick with her for quite a while, and bask in the YMMV glory of being a favored regular. As such, I value strippers who value their regulars, and IME a stripper who values and favors her regulars is going to give him some way to contact her to arrange appointments to see her. If she doesn't, that's as clear a signal as she can give: move on.

If I were more of a variety guy I might not care either way. IF I had multiple CFs I might not care. Just depends on what you're looking for.

@subraman that makes alot of sense and what I was kinda thinking

@dogchain it depends on what you wanted… if your looking for otc or extras and she says no to the number that certainly means otc is off the table at least for the time being..

As for ITC extras… has she done any extras so far?

I dont agree with the logic that you should keep spending money on a dancer in hopes that she will eventually offer extras/otc.

Im also not looking for a relationship, and dont care if the dancer is seeing other clients or banging othee guys.

So in your situation i would cut her off if she hasnt already been providing extras