OTC without the bang?

No. I’d never want to be seen in public with an OTC stripper or escort, and honestly I typically don’t enjoy their company. Show up to my hotel, entertain me, fuck me, then go away.

I have other more interesting friends, family, and coworkers to spend time with on platonic dates, including my wife. And at the risk of sounding like a creepy old man, this past weekend I really enjoyed having my daughter home with four of her hot friends from U Miami, running around the house in bikinis, swimming in the pool, riding jet skis, and taking goofy pictures of themselves, while I tried to act like I wasn’t checking them out.

I've gone out to grab a bite and smoke weed on 2 occasions. On one, I bought food. On the other she bought food. I supplied the weed. I would much rather hang out alone than pay anyone to hang out with me.

@Iknowbetter: "while I tried to act like I wasn’t checking them out."

I can virtually guarantee that you failed at that. I have two daughters, and they can detect male interest from a mile away, especially from a "creepy old man." At least one of them noticed.

@dogchain: except for my ATF, and my current sugar baby, whom I've taken to dinner, lunch, breakfast, clubbing, I don't much get into socializing with my OTC dates. I prefer hanging out with them privately.

I've hung out with strippers and escorts to grab a bit or hit a bar. I wouldn't pay to do it, however.

@Iknowbetter

four of her hot friends from U Miami, running around the house in bikinis, swimming in the pool, riding jet skis, and taking goofy pictures of themselves

Pics and Vids of the “four of her hot friends from U Miami, running around the house in bikinis, swimming in the pool, riding jet skis, and taking goofy pictures of themselves” or it didn’t happen.

Good times, Good Times.

:D

Any of these girls were there?

Years ago I used to hang with (TUSCL Avalons07) whenever I was in town. Even went to her house. We usually went where she had 2 for 1 coupons. Some times I paid. Sometimes she did. Once she suggested that we dress up for dinner. She said "I want to see the tongues wag when I kiss you and call you daddy". I miss her.

@shadowcat that sounds like an awesome experience man, I wonder if I'll ever get that close with a stripper one day....

@iknowbetter @georgemicrodong

"I can virtually guarantee that you failed at that. I have two daughters, and they can detect male interest from a mile away, especially from a "creepy old man." At least one of them noticed."

I betting all 4 of them noticed. Furthermore, I am betting that more than 1 of them wanted you to check them out!

Hell to the no. Have some pride. What am I too repulsive to have sex with? (nobody answer that) Scram, lady. NEXT. Fuck outta here.

A dancer I knew wouldn't do anything without expecting to get paid for it once asked me to take her out to eat. She expected to get paid for that too. My answer was 'I'm not going to pay you to eat!' She never brought it up again.

Most of those girls won't do anything without money being involved so they won't see any money from me unless I get what I want, pussy.

Just my opinion and my own experiences but I don't feel the need to pay for any form of companionship. If I reduce myself to that level I'd probably end up feeling like a simp. I've never felt like what I believe is simp behavior in my life and I'm not looking to start down that road.

All my SBs have been strippers and they were nice people OTC but would I pay anyone to just hang out no.

Back a dozen years ago I took a couple of girls out for a hamburger.

At the end of her shift, I once met a stripper at a local Burger King which was across the street from the club. She looked much better in the dim lighting of the club.

Have I done dinner, drinks, or a movie with nothing extra? Yes. Have I paid for it? Nothing beyond the cost of the dinner, drinks, or the movie. There are limits to being pathetic.

I won't pay a dancer to go to lunch or dinner with me, or to otherwise just go out in public in some capacity. I don't do shopping sprees either. However, IF I actually enjoy her company--and I'd never meet a dancer OTC if I didn't--I certainly don't mind paying for lunch, dinner, or whatever the hell it is we've decided to do...

I've been to breakfast, lunch, dinner, coffee shops, the mall, Walmart, and other places with some ridiculously beautiful dancers. I'd be lying if I said it wasn't just a wee bit entertaining catching guy after guy after guy checking out my hot AF companion, and the corresponding looks of envy that go along with that... :)

RE: 4 hot friends from U Miami: Yes, they all knew I was checking them out and they knew what they were doing. Overtly flirting while feigning innocence while my kid rolled her eyes. Typical behavior for entitled 20 year-old college girls who think it’s fun to flirt with old married guys because they think we’re safe. Little do they know I’d bang every one of of them, given the opportunity.

I have had three or four regulars bring up the subject of me buying them dinner. It seemed to me they were thinking this would benefit them in some way. This was not only a way to get a free meal, though that was part of it, but also to get me to like them more and therefore spend more money on them and keep me coming to see them. Many successful strippers do things to make the customer feel special and this is just one of them.

I enjoy being with a pretty young stripper but I am aware if one is sitting in a restaurant with me neither one of us is really interested in talking and socializing with each other. Her primary interest is my money and my primary interest is her physical attractiveness. I just go to a strip club to see them and let them spend their time outside the club with young guys their own age.

For those commenting about SB what is the difference between that and paying for their time?

Docsavage have you already been seeing those girls for a long time for them to ask you about this or do they see you spending good money on others and think they can get it coming their way but offering this?

"-who think it’s fun to flirt with old married guys because they think we’re safe. Little do they know I’d bang every one of of them, given the opportunity."

They're probably fully aware of that. I'll admit that therein lies the fun of play flirting with old guys: knowing that they are checking you out and would 100% fuck you but that theyll never have the chance LOL. (I used to do it rather frequently, but with strip club djs or neighbors, not my friends fathers which I think is a bit crass)

Any young girl with 3 braincells to rub together knows that a man being married means virtually nothing if he's around young hot women.

On topic though, i've been paid just to go to dinner, but only in the sugar baby courting phase back when I used Seeking. I don't sugar anymore (I hate keeping in contact in between meets and SBs are expected to do that, escorts arent) and I've never been propositioned for sexless OTC.

Dogchain, it is usually regulars who offer to go out to dinner with me. There was one situation, though, where it was a stripper seeing me spending money on another girl in the club and offering to go out to dinner with me too, most likely to get me to divert money in her direction.

I never followed up on her offer but kind of wished I had later because she was certainly attractive and quite intelligent too. She had no common sense, though, and had gotten herself hooked on drugs and alcohol. She could not have held down a regular nine to five job with her addictions.

Never paid $ to have dinner with a stripper. Mostly they have been good company. Their whole business model depends on having engaging personalities, and all were earning good coin off me either ITC or OTC. Also, gotta admit I enjoyed the looks Zi get from my age peers (male and female) when they get a load of me breaking bread with some young hottie and they’re imagining me fucking her after the dessert course

@dogchain The difference is I'm not only getting her time. If I take my SB out and give her a PPM we aren't just hanging out. I don't pay anyone for there time.

Similar to doctorevil I've taken strippers to shows in Vegas, cabanas at pools, meals, baseball games and the like. Picked up the tab. Never paid them for their time per se.