Questions about Hong Kong Extras/VIP Rooms

Hi all. I've been to HK maybe 4-5 times and still feel like I'm figuring the place out. The issue I'm having is that things often get super sensual and fun getting beers or a lap dance - which I usually do - but going arriba 1) involves a long interruption in the excitement because of all the stops along the way up to the room and 2) often in the hotel room the girl just slaps a condom on you and it's go time, except it just feels mechanical. It's way less sensual and way less warming back up than a good AMP for example.

So my question is about the VIP rooms. I dig getting dances and extras in some kind of combo experience, but I've only done lap dances at Hong Kong, not the VIP rooms. I know the rooms VIP costs more - and cash isn't the issue - but is there a strategy to turn the VIP rooms into an extra's room? How to approach a HK girl about that? That combo has always been the draw of going to a club when I do. Not really looking for full service btw, just the other stuff.

Any advice would be much appreciated!