How Much is Too Much

The boyfriend or husband is a cuck, no matter what they believe. No real man would be in a situation such as the one described.

I can’t remember talking to two strippers about this.
The first one her relationships did not last long because guys wanted her to stop dancing… or at least stop her dancing.
Second one was married, but had a very clear and open agreement with her husband. He didn’t want to know details. I guess at one time he happened to reach of her text messages which were pretty graphic, and I got him angry. Other than that, everything was pretty good. Part of their agreement was, for her “freedom” she would occasionally bring home coworkers. Seems to work for them. I’ve been married now for over a decade.

I think in this situation one would have to compartmentalize everything going on with her job. You mention feeling like a cuckhold, but you literally are one in that situation, the only question is how you react to it.

Personally, I would think hearing about the gory details would be a nightmare of aggravation. If it were me, I would completely compartmentalize those thoughts and not dwell on them. I'd ask her specifically not to share with me.

I would also never be in such a relationship without it being open on both sides.

@chunkychicano the dancer and her husband have been married over a decade.

Years ago I dated a former stripper. We also were in the lifestyle, so I got to see her do all sorts of stuff with other men and women on many occasions, as she did me, and when we played together. We had agreed upon rules to our engagements, and so long as we played within those rules everything was cool. I also knew she was coming home with me at the end of the night.

She decided she wanted to go back to dancing part time while we were together and I had no problem with that. She was up front about what she was willing to do and what she was not willing to do, and I trusted her, so it was never a problem. Besides, I knew it was me she was coming home to.

Our relationship eventually ended on good terms and with some regrets, but the sex and the stripping was not the issue.

^They must really look down on a cheap ass trick like you.

I would never be married to a stripper. A main reason I go to strip clubs is I do not want to be married and a strip club allows me to spend the time I want with females. One thing I think that would be important for a stripper husband is to not be the jealous type. Once, when I was entering a strip club, I saw a stripper getting out of a car to enter the club. I then heard her boyfriend or husband in the car yell at me to stop staring at her. What does he think customers do all night? She got an angry look on her face and told him to stop it. The other strippers heard about it and a couple of them apologized to me for what happened.

One fave told me her SO wanted to know all her shenanigans when she got home from the club. Turn on for him, ramped up their sex life. Or so she said.

A dancer that I knew at Follies told me that she was pregnant. Without thinking I opened my mouth and asked if she knew who the father was. She replied her husband. I didn't know she was married. I wonder what her husband was wondering?

If you need someone to work on your car, find an honest and competent mechanic. Don't try to find a mechanic who doesn't use their hands, and holds all the tools in their teeth. Likewise, if your relationship works for you, it's dumb to be dissatisfied based on what anyone else thinks of it, or tells you is wrong, abnormal, cucky, etc. You're taking something hard, and pointlessly making it harder. Whereas it's never hard to find "friends" who want to flex by talking down whatever you think is good in your life. Whenever a sex worker has seemed to genuinely get somewhat into me, it always seemed to be about things at home disappointing her. The problem would still be there, even if she wasn't a sex worker.