If you were dating or married to a stripper, would you want to know what she did at work or not know? I feel if I know I can see how I am willing to go or stay but if I didn’t know I would feel like a cuckold. How much of what she told you would bother you and where is your cut off for tolerance? Is it considered an open relationship or her cheating? Your thoughts
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last commentThe boyfriend or husband is a cuck, no matter what they believe. No real man would be in a situation such as the one described.
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I can’t remember talking to two strippers about this.
The first one her relationships did not last long because guys wanted her to stop dancing… or at least stop her dancing.
Second one was married, but had a very clear and open agreement with her husband. He didn’t want to know details. I guess at one time he happened to reach of her text messages which were pretty graphic, and I got him angry. Other than that, everything was pretty good. Part of their agreement was, for her “freedom” she would occasionally bring home coworkers. Seems to work for them. I’ve been married now for over a decade.
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I think in this situation one would have to compartmentalize everything going on with her job. You mention feeling like a cuckhold, but you literally are one in that situation, the only question is how you react to it.
Personally, I would think hearing about the gory details would be a nightmare of aggravation. If it were me, I would completely compartmentalize those thoughts and not dwell on them. I'd ask her specifically not to share with me.
I would also never be in such a relationship without it being open on both sides.
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@themightyquinn im confused, are you saying theyve been married over a decade? Or you married the stripper and are married over a decade
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Theres different definitions of cuckold. Some guys consider getting cheated on to be getting cucked. Outside of sex workers it is a guy who enjoys his wife banging other guys, for free. A lot of times the wife is allowed to bang whoever she wants and the cuckold isnt allowed to bang anyone else. Some of the cuckolds are bi and like threesomes with their wife and another guy.
Since shes getting paid for the encounter its not the same as her cheating without payment. Thats one way boyfriend/husband pimpls compartmentalize those things.
Also some would argue the breadwinner has a right to have multiple partners, whether man or woman. A lot of these scenarios the boyfriend doesnt work or maybe works at a sneaker store or deals a bit of drugs while his girl is paying most of the bills. So its not just about her banging other guys
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@chunkychicano the dancer and her husband have been married over a decade.
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