Real "Extra"

30 Jesus 😂

What a fucking goober 😂

Yeah, just look up the high mileage clubs on TUSCL, hopefully you’re not a psychopath, if you aren’t then bring money and have fun!

I am just a normal guy. I rarely go out. social anxiety, low self esteem the whole shebang. never actually approached a girl in real life. the only times I have asked a girl out to hangout or something - rejection. dating apps no luck too.

Wish I knew more about Chicago and Detroit. A good brothel would really be the ticket. Good luck buddy.

Honestly, it’s just about finding/knowing the right girls. You have to put yourself in situations to be around and get to know the freaky girls who fuck (whether strippers or civvies) and then it becomes easy. That’s what I’ve found personally.

I don’t even think it’s about having “game”. Even Dan Bilzerian (guy who’s fucked hundreds of girls) said he has no/bad game. He just puts himself in situations to get to know the hot/sexual girls. Works for me too.

Dan Bilzerian has talked about the importance of status and behavior. Hes talked about seeing both extremes. Tall super good looking guy getting no girls and short ugly fat guys getting a lot.

Dating apps work well if you can demonstrate some sort of status or wealth on them. Just looking good alone wont do much… if you for example pretend to be a college athlete on there… youll get tons of matches even with a busted face, average body etc

You can also hire an escort instead of pursuing an extras stripper. Try to find an escort who offers GFE. Asian and latina escort agencies are more likely to offer that. Youll become more comfortable automatically, just going through that. To become even more acclimated, you should do DATY and even DATO on whoever you see.

Im sure Chicago has a lot of escort agencies. I dont remember the names.

The value in the agency is similar to girls who work for a club, they work for an agency so they dont need to have a pimp or boyfriend pimp behind the scenes.

Go to one of the legal brothels in Nevada. Pricey, but you'll get off.

just don't do what I did. I got married to a girl I met in church.

If you go to strip clubs in the some areas, extras are a pretty normal thing. Someone already mentioned Detroit, which seems like an easy option. If you want to make more of a vacation out of it, hit up someplace like Toronto or South Florida, or as mentioned hit the legal brothels in Nevada or go out of country and try the FKK's in Germany, Tijuana, Thailand, or any of the other famous sex tourism destinations.

I'm pretty sure if you've got a few hundred bucks in hand, and aren't giving off total whackjob vibes, you can get laid in pretty much any of those places without much trouble.

Icey why the attack? You went from supportive to hostile. Is everything okay with you mentally? I am not a whack job.

^ ice is a troll, he posts what ever he thinks might get some attention. Responding to his posts is all he wants

You can definitely get laid at the right clubs, but I’m wondering why a 30 year old isn’t slaying civilian pussy? Buying pussy at a strip club is for old married guys who don’t have civilian options. What’s going on here? Why aren’t the dating apps or meet market bars working?

In all likelihood this is a troll post. While I would certainly classify Icey as a troll, in this particular case he does have a point that this post bears a striking resemblance that of something another regular troll persona would write. I'm still not convinced both of those usernames aren't in fact the same person, but that's another tangent.

That said, if we as a strip club site can't recognize that there are certainly some men who can't get laid for some reason there's really no reason for us not to offer up reasonable advice on how to get that done in a strip club. Maybe the guy works too much and can't find the time for a real relationship. Maybe he's socially awkward or developmentally challenged and has trouble picking up soccer moms or desperate sluts at last call. I don't see those as reasons to bash him and push him further into incel territory. Even if this particular post is a troll, it's reasonable for a google search to lead some other dude here seeking a similar answer.

This thread, despite likely being a troll post, is more on brand than the petty bickering and unhinged political rants that dominate the discussion boards.

@iknowbetter some guys have it very tough. IMO If your an asian, phillipino , darker skinned arab or indian guy who wants a hot white girl… its going to be tough even if you have everything on point. If you have a foreign accent, even tougher.

The thing is if hes having these sorts of issues, theres strippers who might end up scamming him. It might be better to pursue an escort for the first time, IMO, and later get into pursuing extras from strippers.

I am a black guy. nerdy too. never been to a club until a few weeks ago. basically people told me I have to start going out more and interacting with people. I am learning everything from scratch

I'm. not a troll. I have no reason to do that

How tall? How big is your D?

6ft tall, small

Sabiness... I was raised in a church environment and felt I needed to remain a virgin until I got married (which was at the age of 29.)

I did date some and had some fun but out and out sex I held back. I even stayed true to my wife until I split from her 14 years ago. of course now looking back in retrospect I realize just how odd that is.

Lolol Icey so you go around saying its me and yelling but once i ask the height or other measurements your like oh yeah now its rickys troll trap

Chicago is closer to Toronto (which also has legal brothels). Or you could try a website like Tryst, and search for a Chicago escort who is "newbie friendly". Here's one: tryst.link

Social anxiety is very real. Good luck!

What does bilzerian have to do with anything icey… i dont get it

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