facebook & dancers

damns. facebook.

man, like some of yall do, i also got dancers on my facebook as friends. and i'm finally finding some of their real ages LOL. some dancers i know are coincidentally celebrating their 30th birthday this year. i'm like WHAT??? ma, i got text messages and pics from you from 2014! ma, was you 18 years old--back then???? Jesus. i never thought about it. it was such a different time. obama, right? obama was early 50s back then, today obama is like 64 years old. damn.

yo, recently almost got tears in my eyes. one of my dancers i met back in the day, she's returned to dancing recently. i first met her at a completely different strip club that's no more around today. she remembered me. hops on my lap. i'm staring at her face, clueless. she had to pull up old pictures of her on her phone. i'm almost crying, like: look at you, you grew up, you're a woman-woman, now. crazy, you don't ever think about that person again, they hop on your lap and they're much older.

such a difference a decade makes. i won't get over how she looks so much like a woman-woman. whole vibe is different, she got kids now. when i met her she was single. it's been a decade.

also got a dancer on facebook that's a few years older than me. that was shocking. i thought she was younger than me. she got her birth year on facebook. and posting pics that confirms her age. from the neck down she looks 20. neck up is iffy on her age, but definitely neck down she looks 20 years old. no wonder she danced for so long. she's 4 years older than me. 4 years!!! she was still dancing at 50 years old and you couldn't immediately tell. you'd guess late 30s.