Has any of y'all been asked "are you waiting for someone?" while going to clubs

They've seen you there before maybe and want to know if you're someone's customer. Other times it's just an ice breaker

All the time. Normally it’s an ice breaker or else they are offering to find the girl you came to see.

Yep, all the time! Usually as an alternative to "would you like some company?"

I'm okay with a girl asking me if I'm waiting for someone, but if I answer "yes", I'm less thrilled if the girl then proceeds to demand to know WHO I'm waiting on!

All the time.

@Mr.Persianlity: I usually attend specific clubs and I have a tendency to pick certain dancers, based on their communication and demeanor.

@drewcareypnw: The dancers at the clubs know that I look for certain types of dancers and I am a very picky customer. I am a big mileage hound tbh lol.

@ClubFan81077: I am personally good at navigating the dancers that are asking those questions. I wait for dancers who have this "UHM Vibe" to them usually. You approach me with a sensual vibe and sit next to me, then I will definitely get you a dance!

Dancers ask me "are you waiting for someone" all the time. They ask it because it serves several purposes. It serves as an ice breaker, it's a compliment since it implies I'm a good customer who will spend money and it protects their ego because they won't experience a direct rejection, but rather a missed opportunity should I answer in the affirmative.

And if they are dumb enough to ask who I'm waiting for I simply say I'm not good with names. I'll recognize her when I see her, thank you.

It's a way for the girl to determine if you are there to see a regular of yours, in order to not waste her time, and even moreso, to avoid conflict with your regular girl, who may confront her for attempting to steal her regular.

I once had a girl asked me "who"; I told her the name, and she insisted there was no girl of that name there. Really, babe? I just saw her walk in.

I carry two cell phones- business and personal. A stripper once told me that dancers pass me up because they see two phones on my table and think someone is already with me. Now I always leave one in the car.

^ dancers pass you up because you’re a little bitch and it’s obvious.

I get asked all the time.

Often it's by girls who have seen me spending time with specific girls and its a genuine question. They just don't want to waste my time or theirs, nor do they want to steal a customer from a girl either out of respect or fear.

Other times I think its just a way to avoid rejection, similar to how many guys use the "I'm waiting for someone" excuse when they aren't interested. They're queuing it up so I can just say yes instead of saying no thanks, I'm not interested in you. It's easier on them emotionally/mentally. Some probably do it more to save time than avoid rejection.

^^ you're projecting again. This happens to demented old dicks like you. If you're sundowning this early, it won't be long before you just sit drooling by the window

I also often carry two phones. I've had a few girls say that to me. I've also had a few say they thought two phones because I was a drug dealer or pimp and they avoided me for that.

I don't leave my phone in the car as a result though. I don't think I'm missing out on much, I think that if a girl is close enough to see two phones she's also close enough for me to engage with. I find that smiling and saying hello sweetie or something is usually enough to get her to engage back. If the phones are a concern, they'll usually ask and it's no trouble to tell them it's for work.

I did have one occasion where a dancer thinking the 2nd phone was another dancers led to a little drama. I had my personal phone in my hand and was texting someone, when I got a message on my work phone. A dancer saw me set my phone down and grab the work phone off the bar and start looking at it. She thought I was snooping though the girls phone and tried to snatch it from me. I was a little quicker than her, so she failed. But it led to a bit of a ruckus with me clearly confused from a stripper seemingly randomly attacking me and the bartender nearly pissing herself laughing as she understood what the girl was saying and I didn't. That's happened once in all my visits with two phones, so I pretty much chalk it up to a freak occurrence and haven't modified my behavior to avoid it.

Lol, ^ Dolfan, that was some funny shit

@funonthaside: The key issue is that in order for dancers to be as competitive as possible, they need to really sensual when they are approaching their customers. I like the dancers that they set on your lap, and rub your leg with their hand (eventually slightly giving you an HJ here and there). I can easily tell I will get something extra even in the lap area lmao.

@Dolfan: Maybe i should look into what ur doing hahahaha.

Basedtex i have had some girls who did the OTP HJ offer the same thing in the lap dance, nothing extra.

This stealing customer stuff is untrue. A dancer isnt stealing you from another dancer just because she offers you dances and you accept. Theres nothing morally or otherwise wrong with a dancer offering you dances even if she knows you have purchased dances from another girl or are a regular of someone.

^^^ Ask a girl that question, and she will see things a bit differently....not saying it's right...just that some girls view PLs are their property....I don't tolerate it, and set them free once they unreasonably attempt to lay a claim to me, but there are plenty of girls who don't fuck with guys they know are a regular of another girl. Of course, there are also girls who go after money, regardless of whether a PL is someone's regular.

It becomes a cost-benefit consideration of whether you want to cause friction with your regular girl....and that's case-dependent. Remember that being a girl's regular comes with a set of benefits that you may not want to forego. And, a smart girl knows that she can only lay claim to you in cases where she offers value not available from others.

@funonthaside: The girls that are jealous of other girls maybe need to up their game and stop giving air dances I guess