So what's the real purpose of "making it rain" on a dancer??
Jpac73
I was thinking what are some of the reasons that guys will Rain or shower a dancer with a alot of money? Some may just want to make it look like they have alot of money but I think for some it is apart of their "Game"(Technique used to get with women). I have seen a few guys drop a bunch of money on a dancer, but they never spend any more money on that particular dancer after she is offstage. When the dancer comes around after she is offstage this is when they try to get in "Mack Mode" and see if they can get her digits so they can hook up later. Using this method the dancer can't say he is a cheap skate wasting her time and not spending.
So is it a show of power?, or is it apart of their little scheme to try and hookup with the dancer?
So is it a show of power?, or is it apart of their little scheme to try and hookup with the dancer?
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Personally, if I'm going to "shower" money onto a girl on stage, I will just stuff the bill, then wait for her to come back over and stuff another, etc. That way, I get more contact with her and it's not obnoxious. I've done this a few times, usually just 5-7 stuffs on a stage performance, but it usually makes the dancer smile.
Now, if it's a dancer that I don't really know yet and SERIOUSLY want to, or if it's one of my faves and I just want her to know I'm enjoying her, I will tuck a single $20... sort of a bulk "shower".
I used to always fold a dollar or two lengthwise and insert it wherever it was supposed to go (every club is different.) I think it's a waste to give more than a dollar or two when the girl is onstage, because she may not notice or may forget who it was from. I'd rather save the money for an extra dance.
Seriously, I read a review for Hamilton Strip, in Hamilton, Ontario. Apparently stage tipping is illegal. Does anyone know if this is true of all Canadian clubs or is this just a local or Provincial law.
If the Hamilton club review says stage-tipping (more likely, contact between dancer and patron) is illegal, I'd guess that this was because of a Hamilton regulation which applied strictly to that city. It's certainly not standard practice for Niagara Falls, Ontario, to limit contact.
Not too long ago I went to a club I went with my wife and another lady friend of ours. (Both of them way into strippers!) We had a fantastic evening at a semi-local establishment with 4 very lovely dancers. They made quite a bit of $$$ just on lap dances and stage tips, but when we were wrapping things up at the end of the night I made sure to fold a few big bills for each of them. As we all hugged goodbye I handed each their extra tip and thanked them for making the evening extra special.
A little class goes a long way, though we were very well treated regulars before; this has paid off in spades. You should get treated half as well as we do now.
Shower money? Fuck no. - Have a little dignity, treat others with the same, and your strip club visits will get better and better!
I know that one man showering can bother another. But, if it makes the customer feel good and the girl feel good...isn't that a win-win?
Thanks Chandler, I agree.