Ever have a stripper lock you down?

I would say at most clubs I go to I have a designated fav who makes her way over to me when I walk in and the other girls tend to keep their distance. While it used to be annoying I don't have a club where another girl provides a superior experience to my fav at the club. Trust me Ive tried to look in the name of variety, but I always come back to the fav. I've learned to keep things cordial, treat my fav with respect, and tip her friends well in the dollar parade without asking for a dance. In the good ole days each of the clubs I went to had 3 to 4 winners who i'd rotate, but times have changed....

1. is going way too far. I mean, I like a stripper getting jealous over me and being a little possessive but don't start threatening to cut up girls' faces.

NJBalla, a little jealousy and competition keeps it interesting with them.

CC99, thats what a lot of dancers are like though. Stripper drama is brutal. And if a dancer likes you, you'll definitely know it. They're extremely territorial, jealous, insecure.... thats why so many of the threads on if a dancer likes you are stupid. You definitely know when they like you.

I assume that's what happens when you flash a lot of money.

Yes, I had a regular that would be on me as soon as I walked in and wouldn't even give me a second alone. I'd tip other girls on stage and they would tell me when they worked that she wouldn't be there without me asking on a few occasions.

Yep. The one that likes to lock me down is someone who likes talking about money and business. The first night I went to that club I was still in my work clothes so it might have appeared that I didn't have any money. The dancers were walking past me left and right and hanging out at the bar. Then this one young lady who wasn't that attractive came out and sat with me for almost 30 minutes. The whole time she was nice, polite, friendly, but she kept closing for the sale. I was more impressed with her business acumen than her looks so I bought a few VIP rounds. That was almost 3 years ago. To this day, every time I enter the club she's always the first one to approach me and she will not leave me until I tell her to get up. I even went there on an "off" night just to get something to eat and she ran out to the floor saying, "Please wait for me. I just got here and I'm about to get dressed."

@icey if i want to deal with jealousy and competition id date more instead of going to a strip club. Fuck the mind games

BGSD3100, Money only goes so far. They can easily get money from guys. Its when they catch feelings that they go crazy.

NJBalla, date strippers....best and worst of both worlds...

I've occasionally had dancers really want to sell me a dance so much they actually did come back to "check up on me" multiple times in a couple hours. The most common demographic is a dancer in her mid to late 30s who I would be borderline about dating in the civvy world and am not interested in paying for. Funny how they never usually ask if I'll go fuck them for free though...

JamesSD, that reminds me of one stripper at a club I go to a lot.... she's in her 30s, asks me for a dance and a tip every time. I constantly tell her no and never tip, but she'll ask at least twice a night every single time.

i was on lockdown for 32 years by a white girl until i could not take her attitude any longer and i left.

Used to have one a few years ago like this. What's funny is she didn't even know my name. I'd walk in and hear, "Heyyyyy!" from the stage and it was her. We usually did VIP and it was fun but I didn't want to see just her all the time. I had to start hoping she wouldn't see me or wasn't there. There was another chick I was into and when we stepped into VIP I saw the first spot us ave throw her hands in the air. The next I went to VIP with the second chick she asked if I wouldn't rather go with the first. Ha! She actually had her try to throw me her way.

First chick really wanted to meet me OTC. But she said she would schedule several clients in one day and drive to each one. This was a turnoff unless I was first in line, and I had a feeling meeting her outside would probably be a bad idea. If she allowed CIM though I'd probably have been more into her.

A couple of months ago I went to a local club, got a drink and sat down at a table overlooking the stage. A young dancer comes and asks if she can join me. We chat for a bit. Turns out she is pretty new only starting dancing a few days before. After a bit I ask for a dance and we go back to the semi private area for the dance. She is young, pretty, and has a great body. But her dancing was very stiff and seemed forced. She also seemed immature when we chatted. I decided she was not my type. I left soon after the dance. Next time I come in she spots me and comes to sit with me without asking and I am polite and chat with her, I don’t buy her a drink I don’t get a dance but yet she just sits there. A dancer comes on stage and she comments on how good she is on the pole. I suggest we go tip her so I give the young lady a couple of ones and we both go to the stage she tips the girl on stage and I do as well and get my face squeezed by a couple of nice boobies. We go back to our table and sit and the pole dancing busty one comes to thank us for tipping her. I grab her hand and ask for a private dance which she agrees and we head to the back leaving the young one looking lost. In the end I had a great time and escaped the clutches of the clingy young thing.

The clinginess is good if you want to date them though. Otherwise....

MisterWonderful.... Thats a good one...yeah thats a long time...

I kinda have one dancer now, texting me every day, always wants to hang out. I've seen her at the club like 3 times, she drops everything and spends time with me, asks me not to leave. I didn't meet her at the club though, met her through some drama shit I went through with someone else.