I think it's just the nature of the bar scene. Hard for someone to see your heart and personality right away, so most people go for looks at first. So if you have the total package, people might first approach you for your looks, but then once you start talking they see there is a lot more, they will appreciate that as well.
Dressing up for the bar puts out a signal that you may be open to approach. Not dressing up doesn’t. So unless you’re putting off other signals you might not seem approachable which would intimidate the average guy
It's not just about looks, it's about signals that you're sending. In the bar/nightclub scene, it may not make sense to some people, but the girl sitting alone is the last one a guy should approach.
Well I go alone to. ars frequently alone and when I'm dressing cute but not sexy but still jabe my makeup and hair done they talk to me but like. Not too many
But when I wear a sexy dress and am still alone they all come after me lol
I almost never dress cute anymore. Guys creep me the fuck out, and I don't wanna talk to them. It's a damn shame because I highly prefer cute clothes/shoes and have a fair amount of all that. There's some seriously scary guys out there just saying, I've heard too much.
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Human nature. Guys might approach you at first for your looks, but I think you also have the brains and personality to keep them interested.
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You're such a sweetheart!!! Thx
But srsly..its like even when I go to bars alone they don't rigorously approach me unless I'm.wearing something sexy:(( ugh lmao
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I think it's just the nature of the bar scene. Hard for someone to see your heart and personality right away, so most people go for looks at first. So if you have the total package, people might first approach you for your looks, but then once you start talking they see there is a lot more, they will appreciate that as well.
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Dressing up for the bar puts out a signal that you may be open to approach. Not dressing up doesn’t. So unless you’re putting off other signals you might not seem approachable which would intimidate the average guy
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It's not just about looks, it's about signals that you're sending. In the bar/nightclub scene, it may not make sense to some people, but the girl sitting alone is the last one a guy should approach.
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Well I go alone to. ars frequently alone and when I'm dressing cute but not sexy but still jabe my makeup and hair done they talk to me but like. Not too many
But when I wear a sexy dress and am still alone they all come after me lol
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To bars frequently **
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walk all over them :)
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I'd love to see you vagina Nicole1994 (:
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I almost never dress cute anymore. Guys creep me the fuck out, and I don't wanna talk to them. It's a damn shame because I highly prefer cute clothes/shoes and have a fair amount of all that. There's some seriously scary guys out there just saying, I've heard too much.
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@blah I like being around handsome guys like twice- 3 times a month
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Lol I can understand. I was just saying be careful out there.
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Something sexy says "come talk to me, I'm on the market"
Something more covering says "leave me alone"
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I mean I never wear covering ..what i Wear still shows off my body and is. Still hot in ...but nothing beats a skin tight nude colored dress lol
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It's more that I HATE being looked at outside of work hence not being all cute often anymore. moron
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@ DC omg do I talk about cuddling a lot here Ummm I like flirting too
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Because we're all shallow douchebags who only think with our cocks.
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Maybe wear jeans instead of a Hijab.
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Nichole, High heels, makeup, and slut wear, that's what makes the woman.
SJG
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