Is it normal for a performer to buy you gifts? I have a dancer who I’ve been going to see the past seven months or so, we chat almost everyday and I would call her a friend. We’ve never hung out outside the club but she messaged me a few days ago and said she found the perfect Christmas gift for me. Is this normal behavior?
My CF/ATF brought up buying me a christmas gift. I have no idea if it's just SS, was a way to get me thinking about buying her something, or genuine. I'm skeptical, but won't mind buying her something regardless
My ATF bought me a Christmas present last year. She's since retired and we have stayed friends and she let me know she got me something this year too. I haven't been spending on her in several months, so this seemed extremely nice of her.
I get a few gifts every year. I would like to believe it is because i am so amazing but it is partly that and partly smart business. Ive recieved several nice gifts this year
"My CF gave my chlamydia. Now she's my ATF"
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@Subra, that happened to me too several years ago. Contagious as hell. Revealed during routine testing and didn't know I had anything.
Thinking back over the years there have been 3 that have really outdone the others. My ATF gridget of course. Last one she gave me was a wrist watch. One gave me an answering machine in the days before cell phones. A bottle of Vino Viagro from the Philippines. a bottle of Cuervo. 8 small cacti. T-shirts. 2 of them brought birthday cakes into the club for me.
I've received a gift or two along the way.......but I'd being untruthful if it doesn't set off alarm bells in my head when it happens.....no gift from a dancer comes without strings of some sort.
@Rando: I remember you telling that story. I was just joking... if my CF had given me chlamydia, I wouldn't have just ATFed her, I would have married her :) I have not ever gotten anything from a stripper, but I appear to be far more conservative than most on the board as far as safety (recognizing that even a condom doesn't protect against things like HPV).
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Stop playing around, jackie, we know you know
The most I ever did was give a regular some orange slices because he didn’t eat anything before showing up.
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@Subra, that happened to me too several years ago. Contagious as hell. Revealed during routine testing and didn't know I had anything.
Did you take antibiotics together?
LOL - end of discussion