As I know, the hookup script is what has come to replace the car keys and wallet dating script in some social venues. The most often is college.
So
- The people are effectively pre-screened, elite status.
- The women do not want relationships or marriage at that time.
- Both women and men are very busy.
- Everyone is basically finanical solvent.
amazon.com
As for picking up women at a bar, great. Sometimes it does work real well. But other times they won't move that fast and it still takes the car keys and wallet date.
People outside of college tend to get more conservative.
Now with P4P, of course instant sex is how it goes best.
Now online recruiting for hook ups, I would feel that that is P4P. Or it is something which you must never allow, people posing as being older than they are.
F2f first meetings are always best!
SJG