Why I love SA... but why it's nonetheless probably not good for me
BurlingtonHoFactory
New Jersey, near the Shore
Monday, May 21, 2018 2:28 PM
I've been on SA for a few weeks now, and in general I love it. During my brief time on the site, I've had sex with seven women, I met briefly with an eighth, and I've sent and received messages to and from dozens of others. As others have pointed out, it's just another form of prostitution, but it feels different somehow than escorts, strippers, etc.
For one thing, the orgasms are real (which can't always be said of escorts and strippers). Two of the women only gave me head (in my car), but the other girls all exhibited what I would call the textbook female sexual response, and they all seemed to genuinely enjoy themselves. In other words, it wasn't much different from being with a civilian.
Plus I love the variety. The women I've been with range in age from a college girl in her early 20s to a divorcee in her 40s. And their backgrounds are very diverse as well - some are homeowners and careerists, while others are just barely getting by. Anyway, if it weren't for limited time and resources, I would probably have seen a different girl every single night for weeks. A new guy like me is apparently catnip for these SBs. But my dance card is officially full, at least for now.
Having said that, there are some downsides that, in retrospect, should have been obvious. For one thing, since most of these girls aren't really "pros," they don't seem to understand that this might only be a one-and-done kind of thing. Not a day goes by that I don't get a text message from at least one of them (and sometimes all of them) asking when we can hang out again, telling me that they miss me, etc. One girl says she doesn't want to see anyone else from the site except for me. Two others have actually shut down their SA accounts since meeting me! I have no idea how to let them down gently. For one thing, being pursued is a flattering feeling. But for another, I really don't want to hurt their feelings.
Also, there's the other side of the coin: for some of these girls, I am just a temporary thing. They need help with a mortgage or with student loans, or perhaps they're both bored and broke at the same time. For them, I'm no different than a part-time job or a summer fling. One day soon, they'll move on with their lives. They'll have boyfriends, lovers, husbands, careers, graduate degrees, businesses, children, and grandchildren. Perhaps one day, some of the younger ones will argue before the Supreme Court, or make movies in Hollywood, or work on a cure for cancer. And they'll forget all about me. They won't need me anymore.
Maybe I'm not mature enough to handle sugaring, I don't know. Does anyone else have similar thoughts?
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