I can do this too! Apparently Wallanon just posted a discussion comparing BBBJ and DATY which are very similar activities depending on the point of view, but from the TUSCLers' POV, there is absolutely no comparison with BBBJ generally being considered the pinnacle of ITC extras. Well outside the risk takers (both ends) that partake in BBFS. So i thought that this comparison would be a bit less lopsided as that one and even the other ones with a possibly a little more consideration.
I pick DATY because for me, it tends to be more enjoyable for both parties. Girls usually seem to be more willing to do this, and on repeat occasions if you're halfway decent at doing it.
Well, I posted on Wallonon's thread that I consider FS, even if covered, to be greater than BBBJ. I mean, consider that the girl would do BBBJ, but for FS she insists on a condom. That should tell you that in her mind FS is a bigger deal, and this is not hard to understand.
Likewise I love DATYing girls. But in P4P venues some will refuse DFK, but still go for DATY.
But with a civilian, you might FS her, and it could be with or without DATY. Say time is limited, you aren't really going to undress her, just pull up her dress and up against the wall. Okay, but you do this, you are still going to give her DFKing.
So I would say that DFKing is a bigger deal, especially to the girl, and even though they do like DATY.
You don't want to have the girl performing 'services' for you. You want her to just let go and let you have her. DFKing will happen in such cases, as it is very important. DATY is more of a situationally dependent sort of thing. Not mandatory.
If you are DFKing her, then pretty much she is your GF already.
My ATF told her DATY didn't do much for her, though she hasn't had me yet. I did have a girlfriend once who couldn't come at all....Until one time I got her to smoke pot....then she came for the first time ever according to her...
Anyway I'd prefer daty over DFK....but dfk still fun.
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Likewise I love DATYing girls. But in P4P venues some will refuse DFK, but still go for DATY.
But with a civilian, you might FS her, and it could be with or without DATY. Say time is limited, you aren't really going to undress her, just pull up her dress and up against the wall. Okay, but you do this, you are still going to give her DFKing.
So I would say that DFKing is a bigger deal, especially to the girl, and even though they do like DATY.
You don't want to have the girl performing 'services' for you. You want her to just let go and let you have her. DFKing will happen in such cases, as it is very important. DATY is more of a situationally dependent sort of thing. Not mandatory.
If you are DFKing her, then pretty much she is your GF already.
SJG
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Anyway I'd prefer daty over DFK....but dfk still fun.
Hers or mine doesn't really matter - DATY all the way, lol.